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Men using woman

This guy I met in my neighborhood over month ago and I hit it off good for weeks. Had sex after third and since ask me for favors. Pick him up take him somewhere. Once he waited until I got off work late asked me take him walmart around midnight for peanuts. Although he lives with mom, sister and nieces and they have a car.

One day he sent me text with picture of a man and woman intimate. I waited until the next day and replied with how nice.

Next thing I know we're no longer friends on Facebook. Two days later I blocked him from Facebook. All week I texted and once called no reply no answer.

He got what he wanted. You blocked him on FB, and then tried to contact him. Why? Sounds like he's not worth it to me.

Is there a question in your post? I think you know the answer. Move on and don't be so easy in the future and hope that you are not pregnant. He may come back in due time but is that what you want, just a quick romp?

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Originally Posted by teacherjenn4

He got what he wanted. You blocked him on FB, and then tried to contact him. Why? Sounds like he's not worth it to me.

He unfriended me first duh.. we did more than sex we hung by water front everyday talked for hours

Sounds like he was testing the waters, so to speak, to see just how free you would be with your favors... of all kinds.

What sort of relationship did you think it was? Apparently the two of you had different views of what was going on and where things were going to go.

Lesson learned: become more discerning in what you do in a relationship, when you do it, and with whom. Patience and discernment will serve you well.

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Originally Posted by catonsville

Is there a question in your post? I think you know the answer. Move on and don't be so easy in the future and hope that you are not pregnant. He may come back in due time but is that what you want, just a quick romp?

We hung out weeks talked hours before ww ever had sex.hes mad at me I guess.why he ask me take him walmart at midnight? Hes donw with me you mean

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Originally Posted by DoulaLC

Sounds like he was testing the waters, so to speak, to see just how free you would be with your favors... of all kinds.

What sort of relationship did you think it was? Apparently the two of you had different views of what was going on and where things were going to go.

I didn't say it was a relationship I'm nust saying I thought be liked hanging out.we hung out in public before.hes obe don't work list nob so I was heloung him out.he lives w mom snd he's 50 and no car.its his loat he needed rbe favor

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Lesson learned: become more discerning in what you do in a relationship, when you do it, and with whom. Patience and discernment will serve you well.

hes one don't work I was helping him out.be lives at home no car.its his lost.we hung out in public.I never said it was a relationship but I thought be liked the friendship

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I never said it was a relationship but I thought be liked the friendship

You were wrong or maybe he found a better friend. Regardless move on, and watch those one way friends.

That's what we thought OK. He could still return text it was just last Friday I took him walmart he lives 2 minutes driving distance you think he kerp me as friend

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You were wrong or maybe he found a better friend. Regardless move on, and watch those one way friends.

He liked what you were willing to provide him with. You apparently didn't react how he wanted and moved on. If he were interested, he'd still be contacting you.

You know he used you......and you showed him that you were okay with that, even if that wasnt your intention. if you are okay with that, continue to try and contact him.

But I did take him walmart.I wished him happy fathers day sundayvge said thanks.I text him wed until yesterday nothing.do you think he knows he's blocked
Or he just stop texting

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Originally Posted by DoulaLC

He liked what you were willing to provide him with. You apparently didn't react how he wanted and moved on. If he were interested, he'd still be contacting you.

He could contact you if he wanted to. Since you know where he lives, and this is bothering you, stop by and see him.

You need to get a clue. How old are you? He was using you and found someone else to use.

I gotcha.o thought he was mad.few weeks ago his phone was disconnected and said if you jad called me you would have known.I guess your answer is the best.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You need to get a clue. How old are you? He was using you and found someone else to use.

Everyone says he used me found someone else. He would text me hi send me piems cause he's a poet.he can act like s big baby get mad he did it before.he lives with mom sister and nieces.I wouldn't just stop by.since I've known him almost every week someone he's known closed died.earlier this week someone died

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Originally Posted by DoulaLC

He could contact you if he wanted to. Since you know where he lives, and this is bothering you, stop by and see him.

Well, you've received some different suggestions and opinions, so now you can think about your situation over the last several weeks and decide what you think about it, and what you are going to do.

Good luck!

Thanks although I still dk what to do.I won't text him

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Originally Posted by DoulaLC

Well, you've received some different suggestions and opinions, so now you can think about your situation over the last several weeks and decide what you think about it, and what you are going to do.

Good luck!

Have you introduced him to your cheating husband?

Good eye, J_9. How could I forget!

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Originally Posted by J_9

Have you introduced him to your cheating husband?

Did u see the date n year of that post?who says I'm still married that's so old

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Good eye, J_9. How could I forget!

You too do u see how old that post is... good eye lol
Well over 3 n 4 y lol

Leave the guy alone is what anyone would do when a brief fling thing doesn't grow into more after a month. Is that so hard?