Originally Posted by
Alty
He works, you work, he takes care of his parents, you take care of his parents, he does all the chores in the house and it seems for his parents as well.
He's 34, so sex is not the most important thing to him anymore. At 34 he's likely had sex for many years and it's no longer that big a deal. Once a week is okay. If you want more, talk to him about it, that's what married people do, they talk to each other.
He seems to have a very full plate, work, family, chores, and a new wife. Try to help him with all his duties, and above all, talk to him about how you feel. That's a very good way to get to know him, and for him to get to know you.
I have to add, from what you posted, your title makes no sense. He may be boring to you, but he's definitely not lazy.
Good luck. :)
I have to spread the rep, but bravo! Well said, and so very accurate. When you assume you make an a$$ out of u and me.