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  • Apr 13, 2007, 05:50 AM
    Nisharay
    In Love with my Best Friend !
    Hi,

    What will you suggest a person to do when she falls in love with her best friend, even after knowing she is only his friend and he is in love with somebody else.
    Its 5 Years now, I seen my best friend get in & out of relationships. Even after knowing I am mad in love with him, I am still his best friend, guide, etc. he comes to me for any issues or problems. But I am getting hurt every time he ignores me and unable to go ahead with my life. When he is emotional, he comes to me, we get along like kids but next day he is again formal with me. He cannot even stand any other guy with me.

    Please advice me, why guys are so practical and stone hearted?
  • Apr 13, 2007, 07:02 AM
    Krs
    Does he know how u feel towards him??
  • Apr 13, 2007, 07:11 AM
    Jiser
    Practical and cold hearted? Please... do not stereotype! We are all individuals in this world.

    If you tell him how you feel... you may risk your friendship.. But hey?
  • Apr 13, 2007, 02:34 PM
    BlakeCory
    As friends he has no right to be jealous of other guys. Since you are hurting and are unable to go ahead with your life you need to make a stand.

    Tell him how you feel. Be honest and even if you don't get together you can start healing and go on with your life.

    You are to valuable to let any man keep you in his back pocket.

    God Bless.
  • Apr 13, 2007, 05:27 PM
    haleyjames
    Ok, girl your in luck I had the same problem except it has not been 5 years. The person I like flirts with me and he knows exactly how I feel about him. You should tell him how you feel, if you haven't already done so. Maybe one day he will realize he's in love with you.
  • Apr 13, 2007, 11:48 PM
    Nisharay
    Yes, of Course he knows, I am crazy about him. He only said that he is in love with someone else and I am only his best friend, then slowly he started feeling jeolous of my male friends. He won't even let me move out from there.
  • Apr 14, 2007, 07:29 AM
    talaniman
    You may have to back away from him and his problems, as it has caused you pain because of the way you feel about him. If he is your friend he will understand. If not then he in't your friend.

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