I went out with this guy last year April and we went for six months,the relationship was good cause I used to be with this guy 24/7,he made sure that every time he came back from work he came to see me no matter what,but now ever since I've moved out things have changed between the two of us(we used to live in the same street)cause now he doesn't come to me as often as before,actually no, he doesn't come to me at all, but we still talk on the phone though, well the next week he's calling me everyday, the next he's not calling at all. The thing that gets me more confused is that he's friends always tell me how much he loves me it's just that his hands are tight right now. So I would really appreciate it if you tell me what you think cause I feel like this guy is playing with my emotions

You seem to be asking everyone but him. You can get everyone's opinions but you still won't know what he thinks or feels. So, ask him.
Ask him how he is and find out what is going on in his life. Is he busy? Are you growing apart? Is he bored? What's going on? You have to ask him to find out.

I know personally that it can be hard to know just how I feel about someone. Maybe because I'm scared to know or maybe because of the circumstances.

Communicate how you feel and give him the time and space to answer. If you're feeling played, let him know that as well. He may not realise the way his actions are coming across. Give him the chance to make it up to you.

God Bless

Communication is the best way, let him know
How you feel, maybe your moving away has affected him and maybe he is
Not sure whether your relationship will work which is called the fear of the unknown.

Good luck in finding your real answers from him.

Ask him only he can tell you the real answer

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Originally Posted by nosi

i went out with this guy last year april and we went for six months,the relationship was good cause i used to be with this guy 24/7,he made sure that every time he came back from work he came to see me no matter what,but now ever since i've moved out things have changed between the two of us(we used to live in the same street)cause now he doesn't come to me as often as before,actually no, he doesn't come to me at all, but we still talk on the phone though, well the next week he's calling me everyday, the next he's not calling at all. the thing that gets me more confused is that he's friends always tell me how much he loves me it's just that his hands are tight right now. so i would really appreciate it if you tell me what you think cause i feel like this guy is playing with my emotions

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I've been there too sweetheart. It's a horrible feeling to sit and wonder "is he gonna call today, or any day this week??" It will absolutely drive you crazy if you don't find out what's going on. Set aside a time when you two can meet, or talk on the phone and tell him you're confused and you have to have answers. Cause believe me, no girl needs to be treated that way. He needs to realize what he's doing before he lets you slip away. But if he tells you he don't want the relationship anymore, as hard as it sounds, let him go. The harder you try to hang on, the further you'll push him away. Best of luck.

I think you shouldn't call him. Wait till the next time he calls you -even though its going to drive you crazy- but when he finally does ask him to maybe meet up with him and if you get a chance tell him how you feel. Ask him how he feels about you. Communication is the only way to solve your problems. Everything must be out in the open before you get even more attached to him. That's what I think.
Good luck girl!

I don't think you should call him... let him be the one that makes the first move that shows that he accually cares but he might just be a jerk you never know :(

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Originally Posted by nosi

I went out with this guy last year april and we went for six months,the relationship was good cause I used to be with this guy 24/7,he made sure that every time he came back from work he came to see me no matter what,but now ever since I've moved out things have changed between the two of us(we used to live in the same street)cause now he doesn't come to me as often as before,actually no, he doesn't come to me at all, but we still talk on the phone though, well the next week he's calling me everyday, the next he's not calling at all. The thing that gets me more confused is that he's friends always tell me how much he loves me it's just that his hands are tight right now. So I would really appreciate it if you tell me what you think cause I feel like this guy is playing with my emotions

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Are you ing kidding me?

He likes you go for it