How do I break up with my girlfriend before I move?
I need help. Me and my girlfriend is dating for 4 years she lives with me and we are young. I'm moving to a place 500Km or 4 hours away for work and I feel we should break up but I love her. I'm not happy and she has no respect for me. I know I'm a very soft person that's why she walks over me. We have good times but more bad ones. She hurt me onces very badly, we were together for 2.5 years when she went out with friends and started dancing with a guy very close like close! They hugged but did not kiss, but there was something there because I was also there but she did not know it and yes I spied on her that night and I'm glad I did.
We did talk about it and I wanted to break up with her then but she changed my mind so I'm still in this. I never got over it. And one of the worst things is she was my first lover and I was hers, so we have a connection. I need to know what I should do because I know you should feel happy and in love but I lost that feeling that night. I think the first sign for a break up is when your asking people online for help lol.
Please help me I need your help before I move away!