My ex and I have been broken up for a year now due to him hurting me multiple times since our break up we speak from time to time now he is leaving the state to move and he ask if he could see me before he left he feels it's the right things to do

An apology? Who knows? Do you need anything from him, or are you just curious?

Why are here asking strangers this question, and why would you even consider meeting anyone again who 'hurt you multiple times' ? If you are here asking, then you are considering his request.

Sounds like he wants to say goodbye before he leaves, perhaps he wants to leave on a good "note".

Perhaps he hopes to get lucky and get you in bed one more time.

Perhaps he wants to cuss you out and throw water in your face.

Only you may know, we do not know him, you or how your occasional talking is doing now.

No I don't need anything from him and yes I'm very curious

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Originally Posted by talaniman

An apology? Who knows? Do you need anything from him, or are you just curious?

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No I don't need anything from him and yes I'm very curious

Why bother if it's just curiosity? What if he pisses you off? Would that satisfy your curiosity?

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Originally Posted by Hazeleyes1991

My ex and I have been broken up for a year now due to him hurting me multiple times since our break up we speak from time to time now he is leaving the state to move and he ask if he could see me before he left he feels it's the right things to do

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If I were to guess, because no one but himself can know his true motives, it would be that he has some unfinished business that he wants to get out of the way before he leaves. An apology, a recrimination, a vicious attack.

Do you want to hear what he wants to say? That is the question. There is NOTHING that says that you have to give him ANY time or hear ANYTHING he wants to say. It is your choice to proceed if you want.