I had sex with my boyfriend on the third of December. Im on birth control and he came in me but a lot of it came out and I had missed my pill the day before. But since around or a little after the day we had sex my nipples have been tender and I'm know I'm not pregnant and he didn't mess with me in that area so what I am wonder is if there's a reason for this because its never happened before and also its not because of my period because I don't get that till later in the month

How do you know you are not pregnant,
No birth control is 100 percent and 1000's of women get pregnant each month just using birth control pills.

Also there is always leakage, even sex without finishing, there is enough sperm in the early fluids to make pregnancy possible.

It is too early to test.

So really you only hope you are not pregnant, you do not know you are not.

Too soon to speculate or worry, since the waiting game has started, fueled by sore/tender breasts? I know many women take this as a possible sign of pregnancy, and may well have some merit with some but in reality at this stage tender breasts could be ANYTHING.

You still have to wait and see, so don't wind yourself up too tight before more is revealed later. You still have to wait to see if your next period comes or not, and then wait a few weeks for a reliable test window. You have sex and wait and see if you are pregnant no matter what or how many types of birth control is used by either of you.

No, it's not a weird question, it's a commonly asked one and the answer is you can only wait and see if you are pregnant or NOT.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

How do you know you are not pregnant,
No birth control is 100 percent and 1000's of women get pregnant each month just using birth control pills.

Also there is always leakage, even sex without finishing, there is enough sperm in the early fluids to make pregnancy possible.

It is too early to test.

So really you only hope you are not pregnant, you do not know you are not.

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The only reason I say I don't think I'm pregnant is because the day before I had sex or two days before I had the type of mucous discharge that I read online that means your ovulating. Don't you have to have sex the day of ovulation to get pregnant and it cant be done after? Also I read online that if you miss a day that your still covered

Any time you have sex you risk pregnancy. Tracking cervical mucous is helpful, but not always accurate. Birth control is not always 100% effective, even if taken exactly as directed. I got pregnant, not once but twice, using 3 forms of birth control EXACTLY as directed.

You can get pregnant UP TO 10 days after. Though its statistically less likely with every passing day.

Without actually taking medical tests or keeping a long term basal temp chart... all you are doing it guessing when you actually ovulate.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

You can get pregnant UP TO 10 days after.

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. Actually, no. The egg is only viable for a few short hours after ovulation. The issue is that unless we know exactly when ovulation occurs everything is just a guess.