I would like to have two men at a time my husband is willing how do I get it to happen?:confused:

That is the easy part! Getting your significant other to agree is usually the most difficult part. Now you just have to find the other person. Finding someone that you both feel comfortable with is key and discussing it openly and be specific about what you want out of it so that both of you feel secure in your relationship. As far as specifics on finding someone... there are so many ways, online would be the easiest but if you and your husband know of anyone that you might agree on then maybe go out with the person, have a few drinks and when the inhibitions are lower, bring it up. This might be a good way of finding out if you truly are ready for it if you can discuss it with someone else.

I'll agree, not that we've ever done it (we haven't)... but the topic has come up. Going to have to find someone you both are comfortable with or its not going to work.

Are you really certain this is something you both want to do? You really need to be 100% sure your husband wants to do this and isn't just agreeing to make you happy because if he is then it could have a devastating effect on your relationship (read other posts on here). Some things are best left as a fantasy, or done when young, free and single. If you do want to go ahead the internet would probably be a good place to start. I don't think using a friend will be a good idea because it may cause your husband to feel insecure if you are going to be around this person again. Or maybe on a night out you could talk to someone together in a club so it's a joint decision. Also, how will you feel of your husband then wants to have a threesome with another woman? Are you going to be so accomidating?

Zipp,

What is driving the desire for a threesome? Are you unsatisfied with sex
With your partner? Do you have difficulty working with your partner? Did
Your husband seem surprised by your request? Is your husband a very
Passive guy in the one down position?

Rich

Read this first

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...dered+cheating

I second Matt's recommendation on looking at this situation from a point of view of somebody who already has gone through it. You will also get plenty of different views concerning this situation you want to get yourself in.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-s...dered+cheating

Joe

I third Matt's recommendation.

You guy's will never look at each other the same again be sure it is what you both want!