I've been dating this guy for 4 months and we broke up last year October, but the thing is the relationship has never been good for me cause this guy had a girl friend and a child AND he had other girl friends on the side (girls I never knew about) but I still held on to the guy, I only broke up with him when I heard that he asked my friend out. But now things are different cause now I'm dating his friend and I really like this guy cause he's good to me, he makes me feel loved in every way. So what I want to know is that do you think I'm being a by dating my ex-boyfriends friend, cause I'm not going to lie to you I really like this guy.

Well now that I have heard your full story, I would say no!
Date this guy! And have fun! If your ex-boyfriend was sleezy enough from the sounds of it, he had no respect, so don't bother!

If you like him, date him - but don't date him if it is just to get back at your ex-boyfriend.

There's nothing wrong with dating this guy.
He treats you right and loves you for you. Unlike your ex, he cares for you genuinely! Just make sure that you love him as well and that he's not a rebound, cause if you treat him as a rebound, in the end, everyone ends up hurt.
Go with the flow! Seems like you caught a quite a catch ;) don't let him go!
Good luck with your relationship!

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Originally Posted by nosi

the relationship has never been good for me cause this guy had a girl friend and a child AND he had other girl friends on the side (girls i never knew about) but i still held on to the guy, i only broke up with him when i heard that he asked my friend out.

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It doesn't sound like this guy was ever really your boyfriend, so why do you even care what he thinks? He obviously wasn't concerned about your feelings when he asked out your friend. Like Illusion says, don't just do it because you have an ax to grind because then you're using the new beau and that's not right. I'd just tell u to keep your eyes peeled and guard your heart. Good luck!

What is good for the goose is good for the gander!
He didn't think anything about being with other girls and you DID say he asked your friend out so he must not think anything of it himself!
You are free and single to see who you want.