Ask Me Help Desk - How to know she likes me

I'm a software professional working in a top mnc in India. In our project one girl is there. She will always wear her id card in the reverse side. Means to avoid others team member to notify her name. We both are in different team. So there is no possibilities for me to get to know her name without seeing her id card.

Many time myself and my friends tried to see but can't, but one day morning I had seen her in the cafeteria. She was sitting alone and eating breakfast. That time I was came and sitting near next table to her for directing her direction toward me. While I was seeing some other side she was looking me. Suddenly I turn to her direction and she turned her face to some other direction. Three times it happened that time. The same day we both met in T break she came with her friend. I was filling my water can In water doctor. While I'm turned my face I was shocked. She was standing behind me and waiting for her turn. That time she took her id card with her hand and shaking the id card in front of me. That time she kept her id in front and I can see her name easily. The thing is usually she never kept her id for showing her name to others.

Once I left from that place, again she kept her id card in her pocket and left. While I was said that to my friends, no one believed me. All of them said she will never show her id to others. Whenever she crossing me she seeing me at least once. Can anyone please tell me whether she is showing me like she is interested on me or just siting me? If she's showing interest means how can proceed further. I'm good looking guy only.

Doesn't matter what she is doing. Who knows? Stopping blabbing to your friends everything you do, and talk to her like a human being, and find out what she is up to, and what's on her mind.

Is it so hard to say hi, and introduce yourself? Looks have little to do with being friendly, and engage a person in a nice way.

How old are you any way?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Doesn't matter what she is doing. Who knows? Stopping blabbing to your friends everything you do,that er salk to her like a human being, and find out what she is up to, and what's on her mind.Is it so hard to say hi, and introduce yourself? Looks have little to do with being friendly, and engage a person in a nice way. How old are you any way?

I'm 25 and she s I think 22 to 24. I just want to talk with her but feeling hesitate to speak with her. I hot few chances those times she was alone. But because of hesitation I lost those chances. I don't know hw to start speaking. I don't have contents too.. please help me hw to start. .

"Is it so hard to say hi, and introduce yourself? Looks have little to do with being friendly, and engage a person in a nice way."

Don't hesitate, sit down and say hi and introduce yourself. You want a ready made rap I charge for that! If you can babble with your friends, you can say hi to a girl.

I agree... you are 25, not 11, if you can't go up ant talk to her... then you don't deserve to be dating her (or anyone else).

When someone else grows a set of balls, goes up, asks her and starts dating her... then who is to blame then (you are). Because if she's worth having... its going to happen, that much is certain... and likely to happen very soon. The worst she can do is say no, she isn't interested.

Ever hear the quotes? "He who hesitates is lost." or "You snooze, you lose."

Opportunity and time waits for no man.....or woman.

And my parting quote. Nothing ventured...nothing gained.

Trying to read her ID card... Talking to your friends... In America this is how 13 year old kids behave.

Even in India, people walk up to others and talk. It is time to start behaving like an adult.

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Originally Posted by try2enjoy

I'm a software professional working in a top mnc in India. In our project one girl is there. She will always wear her id card in the reverse side. Means to avoid others team member to notify her name. We both are in different team. So there is no possibilities for me to get to know her name without seeing her id card.

Many time myself and my friends tried to see but can't, but one day morning I had seen her in the cafeteria. She was sitting alone and eating breakfast. That time I was came and sitting near next table to her for directing her direction toward me. While I was seeing some other side she was looking me. Suddenly I turn to her direction and she turned her face to some other direction. Three times it happened that time. The same day we both met in T break she came with her friend. I was filling my water can In water doctor. While I'm turned my face I was shocked. She was standing behind me and waiting for her turn. That time she took her id card with her hand and shaking the id card in front of me. That time she kept her id in front and I can see her name easily. The thing is usually she never kept her id for showing her name to others.

Once I left from that place, again she kept her id card in her pocket and left. While I was said that to my friends, no one believed me. All of them said she will never show her id to others. Whenever she crossing me she seeing me at least once. Can anyone please tell me whether she is showing me like she is interested on me or just siting me? If she's showing interest means how can proceed further. I'm good looking guy only.

There is an easy trick for this. Walk up to her, even if she isn't in your group, and say, "Hi I am <your name>, what is your name?", with a follow up of, "I would like to get to know you, would you like to have a coffee or lunch with me?"

Which is to say that the best way to find out a person's name is to ask them rather then trying to creep out their security badge. That is weird and makes you look like a stalker. You're playing silly teenager games when you're both adults. If you want to get to know her, then ask her out on a date, or even just for a little bit to get to know her. These are childish games and is playing out like a bad movie. Just talk to her.

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Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

There is an easy trick for this. Walk up to her, even if she isn't in your group, and say, "Hi I am <your name>, what is your name?", with a follow up of, "I would like to get to know you, would you like to have a coffee or lunch with me?"

Which is to say that the best way to find out a person's name is to ask them rather then trying to creep out their security badge. That is weird and makes you look like a stalker. You're playing silly teenager games when you're both adults. If you want to get to know her, then ask her out on a date, or even just for a little bit to get to know her. These are childish games and is playing out like a bad movie. Just talk to her.

Ya I know that its looks childish games. But in india this kind of shyness is there. We can easily talk to other girls. If we are having interest on someone, we are hesitating lot. But thanks for your response. Let me try to do that.