One of my best friend's older brother (he is one year older than me) has been flirty with me for months now. He's given signs from subtle touches to hugs to even straight-out suggestions of us being more than friends. I know he is interested / attracted to me but he hasn't actually made a move! I'm getting a little impatient because if he likes me (like I like him!) then I'd like him to show it / say it straight out. If he's not interested in anything happening between us I'd understand, I just want to know what he's thinking. Does anyone have any advice about how I could get his attention in a subtle way to show I'm interested in something more? Or does anyone have a clue what he may be thinking? Thanks :)

PS - I'm almost 18, he is currently 18. Also he has never tried to hide his flirting with me from his sister, so I don't think that's a reason he wouldn't make a move.

Sorry, the story sounds like you are 12. If you are interested in him, you ask him out,

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Sorry, the story sounds like you are 12. If you are interested in him, you ask him out,

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Yes, totally ! If you want something go after it.

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Originally Posted by tickle

Yes, totally ! If you want something go after it.

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That's why I'm confused! I'm tired of him acting like a junior-high boy. We are both old enough to know what we want. Thanks for your advice, I may just let him know how I feel if I get the chance :)

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Originally Posted by kjetaime

That's why I'm confused! I'm tired of him acting like a junior-high boy. We are both old enough to know what we want. Thanks for your advice, I may just let him know how I feel if I get the chance :)

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Seriously... stop acting like a child unless you really are one. If you are almost 18, then ask him. If you can't find the courage to do that... then you don't deserve to be dating anyone yet. Because maybe he see's you in the "friend zone". If you are interested in more...then YOU ask him. Worst he can say is he isn't interested in you that way. But at least you have your answer after you ask.

Could be he just enjoys flirting with you or maybe he is waiting for you to make a move. If you are so into him, ask him out.
You're acting like a Jr. High kid yourself.

Is he the same guy you have a crush on at work?

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Originally Posted by aliseaodo

Is he the same guy you have a crush on at work?

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No! He is my best friend's older brother who is single and about the same age as me.