4 year old with extreme antisocial behaviour
I'm very unnerved by my niece's behaviour, especially towards my 18 month old daughter. Our family has come to visit from out of town, and it is the first time they have ever met. It did not go at all as I expected it to, my niece had little interest in her cousin, and didn't even want my daughter to look at her or else she started fussing and crying about it and would try to hide. My daughter wanted to play so badly and each time she would grab any toy,even her own, my niece would either cry and say she wanted it or she would simply rip it out of my daughter's hand. They were sitting together on the floor playing with toys and I was watching them, although she was talking to my daughter a little, she would still take every single toy my daughter would try to grab. She eventually completely turned away and sat with her back to my daughter and continued to play by herself. I felt so terrible for my daughter, and believe if she was not so young she would have been in tears and had feelings hurt. I'm hoping in a couple days my niece will become more friendly towards us but it is still disappointing to see and feel like this. It also can not be healthy for my daughters own development, so I'm hoping it was just a first day thing. Regardless I think this behaviour is downright strange and so extreme! And I actually fear she would physically hurt my daughter if they were alone. I haven't seen my sister or niece for years, so I have no clue what's went on since then or her parenting style. What could this be, an actual issue or just a child being a child? Am I in the wrong for being so concerned? Is there anything I can do to help my niece? Any advice, ideas or information would be appreciated.