I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. God knows I love him with all of my heart and I definitely put everything into out relationship, and he is the same way. He is always concerned about me mentally and physically.

There is one glitch in our relationship, we have just recently began having sex. I'd say for about 4 weeks now. We will have sex a lot.

My problem? I can't orgasm. I know that it's only been 4 weeks, but already I feel bad cause I want more then anything in the world... to finish. I have tried stimulation while having sex, He's tried manually stimulating me... nothing works.

So one of my friends tells me, "oh hun, all you need to do is go far enough down and make sure his hips hit the right spot.

My next problem? My gyno told me that my vagina dips down in the back and having deep penetration makes me feel lots of nasuea. It only really feels really, really good with deep. Shallow doesn't really do anything.

Am I just doomed to not orgasm ever during sex and just feel sick every time I try? Is there anybody out there that has advice on what to do?

Have you started any new meds lately?

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Originally Posted by bettyblonde45

I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. God knows I love him with all of my heart and I definetly put everything into out relationship, and he is the same way. He is always concerned about me mentally and physically.

There is one glitch in our relationship, we have just recently began having sex. I'd say for about 4 weeks now. We will have sex a lot.

My problem? I can't orgasm. I know that it's only been 4 weeks, but already i feel bad cause I want more then anything in the world...to finish. I have tried stimulation while having sex, He's tried manually stimulating me...nothing works.

So one of my friends tells me, "oh hun, all you need to do is go far enough down and make sure his hips hit the right spot.

My next problem? My gyno told me that my vagina dips down in the back and having deep penetration makes me feel lots of nasuea. It only really feels really, really good with deep. Shallow doesn't really do anything.

Am I just doomed to not orgasm ever during sex and just feel sick everytime I try? Is there anybody out there that has advice on what to do?

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Has he and you tried doing it from the back not the but coming in from a different angle?

How about oral sex?
Does that not do it?

A majority of women orgasm through oral sex and not intercourse!

Try riding him... I am the same way with feeling naseaus when my husband goes to deep. This postiion works the best for me because I can control how deep he goes.

I had this problem too. I still kind of do. What seems to work best for me though is at least ten minutes of foreplay and that is him touching everywhere not just in the "normal" spots. Him running his hands all over your body and use his mouth in the same way too. Also oral right before helps too. You have to be really into it and have your mind in the right place. You also need to make sure when the two of you are doing it that he is rubbing your cliterous with his pelvic bone, hands maybe but that doesn't work for me. Sometimes it works better for me if he keeps his jeans on, I think the roughness helps for some reason. It doesn't always happen, but that's how I get it most times. Good luck!