My ex-bf recently broke up with his ex and we began talking again. We hadn't talked since 10 months prior. But it felt nice talking with him again! So he called/texted me for a few weeks but always after 10pm and usually drunk, then finially one night we hung out( innocent), and he hasn't called since. Its only been 4 days, but don't you think he would call? Ive become obsessed checking my phone... I don't know if he's waiting for me to call or text him? Help

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Originally Posted by lacy2007

My ex-bf recently broke up with his ex and we began talking again. We hadnt talked since 10 months prior. But it felt nice talking with him again! So he called/texted me for a few weeks but always after 10pm and usually drunk, then finially one night we hung out( innocent), and he hasn't called since. Its only been 4 days, but dont you think he would call? Ive become obsessed checking my phone....I dont know if hes waiting for me to call or text him?? help

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"but always after 10pm and usually drunk," I don't know what else you speak with him about. But, is the fact that when he calls he is usually drunk acceptable to you?

Communicate. I hate to see you become obsessed about this. You don't need to be. Please, call him. Preferably at a time when you think that he has not been drinking.

Ouch, you should have cleared this person out of your memory awhile back! At best, he is having drunken flashbacks, at worst he is looking for a booty call!

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Originally Posted by lacy2007

My ex-bf recently broke up with his ex and we began talking again. We hadnt talked since 10 months prior. But it felt nice talking with him again! So he called/texted me for a few weeks but always after 10pm and usually drunk, then finially one night we hung out( innocent), and he hasn't called since. Its only been 4 days, but dont you think he would call? Ive become obsessed checking my phone....I dont know if hes waiting for me to call or text him?? help

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I wouldn't call him if I were you I would just let it be and see if he calls you or not but don't keep checking your phone cause all you are doing is driving yourself crazy for no reason

I don't want to say this but he might of gotten back with his ex.
Wait until he calls you. Don't call him. Don't drive yourself crazy.
If it's meant to be between you two sooner or later he will figure it out and call.

Don't worry too much... if u let him become your obsession.. let me tell he will run away... sooner or later... If you want to keep this... be patient and give it time... take things slow... and see what happens... as soon as you turn to your phone, remind yourself that there r some other important things lined up to do..

Don't call him and ignore him if he calls your it will save you from being hurt. I agree all he is looking for is a booty call I mean come on its always after ten and he's drunk??

You broke up before for a reason so don't forget that. Leave his drunk azz alone and carry on with your life. Why talk to a drunk, and believe him anyway? Not good as he already has you sitting, waiting on the phone to ring. That's unhealthy. I can't believe you want to go through that whole thing again.