So last year I treated a guy really badly *walked off when he approached etc,and its really bugging me,thing is we have never really actually spoken,is it weird if I text him saying I'm sorry, but its been over a year,and I don't know what to do exactly.

Yes. It's weird. Leave it, and him, alone and move on.

I think we have talked about this before, haven't we?

Is this the same person? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...im-808831.html

I agree, leave him alone. Hopefully he has moved on with his life. Time for you to look forward instead of staring at the past.

Recycling old problems is not a good idea.

This guy has no doubt moved on. You should too.

You weren't nice to him. He is going to be suspect of your motives. If that had happened to be I wouldn't give you the time of day. I would ignore the text thinking it was another ruse to mentally abuse me. You've made your intentions clear to him and he's not going to be easy to forgive.

Stop. Leave the poor guy alone.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by CravenMorhead

You weren't nice to him. He is going to be suspect of your motives. If that had happened to be I wouldn't give you the time of day. I would ignore the text thinking it was another ruse to mentally abuse me. You've made your intentions clear to him and he's not going to be easy to forgive.

Stop. Leave the poor guy alone.

---

He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and I feel like he still likes me.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Cat1864

I think we have talked about this before, haven't we?

Is this the same person? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...im-808831.html

I agree, leave him alone. Hopefully he has moved on with his life. Time for you to look forward instead of staring at the past.

---

He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and Ifeel like he still likes me.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by talaniman

Recycling old problems is not a good idea.

---

He hasn't moved on.Nothing has changed.The feelings are still there but he will not express them,I have seen him a lot this month and Ifeel like he still likes me.

If he has not expressed is feelings it is because he has chosen not to. Leave him alone. It does not matter if you feel he still likes you.

Sounds like you are going to do whatever you want anyway. Sometimes we are mean to nice people until we realize that the people we prefer are being mean to us, and suddenly the one waiting in the wings starts to look better.