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  • May 11, 2015, 10:57 AM
    sanjaykuma
    One sided love
    Sir I have a q
    I like much more a girl who has been very close friend me since last 2 month and I hv finally got madly laove with her right now
    She also chating wit me till late night everyday
    But now a days she finally close everything
    Like chating/watsup/calling
    She told me that she want to being single
    An now a days I have going to finally in extreem depresion
    Frustation

    Please hell me sir
    How to recover from this
  • May 11, 2015, 11:09 AM
    Precious7
    Hi Sanjay,
    You really can't force anyone to love you. And she has already told you clearly that she wants to be single. Then respect individuals decision and let her go. Don't get frustrate because its not the end of the world. You are going to have more opportunities in your life for a "love" relationship. Ss. Keep your focus on the present important things in your life and the things you want to achieve in your future. Let it go and Focus, that's how you recover.
  • Jul 16, 2015, 07:29 AM
    talaniman
    You met her, you will meet others, and fall madly in love again. We all do, and recover from rejections every time.
  • Jul 16, 2015, 01:51 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sanjaykuma View Post
    Sir I have a q
    I like much more a girl who has been very close friend me since last 2 month and I hv finally got madly laove with her right now
    She also chating wit me till late night everyday
    But now a days she finally close everything
    Like chating/watsup/calling
    She told me that she want to being single
    An now a days I have going to finally in extreem depresion
    Frustation

    Please hell me sir
    How to recover from this

    Sorry... but that's not love... that's nothing more than infatuation, or lust (meaning its hormone driven, nothing more) something we call, leaving the little head do your thinking rather than your big head.. In two months even if she did reciprocate... (something she did not ) you barely know her.

    I'm guessing you are very young. As was mentioned... you leave this one alone and move on with your life. There is nothing worse than being the target of someone's unwanted affection, even worse when you tell them you don't feel the same way and they don't respect your feelings.

    There will be others. That's a fact of life. Yes it will hurt... but this is an important life lesson to learn, but you will get over it.

    1. Your affections will not always be returned. And 2. You don't plan the rest of your life with someone until you have gotten to know them for several years and know they feel the same way.

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