Ok so I meet this girl back in my junior year of high school (I'm a college freshman) and I always liked her, but I never really talked to her. One day I class we got to sit in the same table, but I was nervous and during the month we sat together I never really talked to her. During that month I found out she had a boyfriend so I decided to give up. No more than 1 month ago they finally broke up. Now I want to talk to her but ii know its been too long, and we go to different colleges. I don't know what to do .-. I had a plan where my girl best friend was going to set us up. But I know I only have one chance to be a friend or even to get a date like I just don't want to mess it up.

What is your question?

What should I do?

Try talking to her. In person. Not online. No text. No friends.

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Originally Posted by J_9

Try talking to her. In person. Not online. No text. No friends.

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I know that but like how? Lol I think we live like 45 minutes away from each other now

Call her phone and ask her if she would like to do something. She may remember you as an unfriendly person, who did not talk to her before, but all you can do is try.

I'm old school,and while I would have kicked myself for letting the window of opportunity close on me, I think I would have let this obsession go, and focused on a more realistic goal for making friends and romance. What you should do now, I feel, is look around you, and explore those options, and opportunities, and not be distracted by past regrets.

Let go and move forward. High school is over.

Call her up and talk to her. You really have nothing to lose

I think you would have figured this all out by the time you got to college. You aren't going to get very many dates if you don't get the balls to ask them out.

Sure some girls might make the first move... but most won't.

Call her up, tell her you're interested in her, ask her out. No friends getting involved, no online crap, talk to her.

If she says yes, great. If she says no then you can move on.

Calling her might come across as creepy since you've had no prior conversations but find a way and chat her up a bit create some attraction... don't just ask her out or she will say no.don't be nervous. Women hate it.