Assalamuwalaikum,
My name is Shanzida. I am from Bangladesh .

A few days ago my sister past away. Now me & my mother wanted to go on her Qabar for Ziarat. But Some people refer to the hadis “Allah dislikes the women who perform ziyarat” and say women should not visit the graves.

Now my Question is that "Can a Muslim Women go on Ziarat of Qabar?"

Yes there is no problem , this kind of people always have their own Tafsir , the best options : if you have husband ask him about this problem... or ask the father about visiting graveyard , and there is no difference between men and women as well