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  • Feb 23, 2015, 05:19 AM
    CARMELLO DIAGO
    Broken heart
    He asked me for space after everything I've done for him. I love him so much and cannot imagine us not being together, he was my everything and suddenly I'm not good enough anymore. I knew he was cheating on me but still I kept on trying to fix the relationship. I turned a blind eye and even went as far as to beg him to give us another chance. I asked some people to speak to him but nothing changed. How do I walk away when it feels as if I'm about to die? How do I move on without him?
  • Feb 23, 2015, 08:21 AM
    Oliver2011
    Regardless of the reason breaking up hurts. So allow yourself some grieving time. While you allow yourself some time, fill your day with friends and relatives and activities. We have all been through this and survived and you will as well. Go for a long walk, get some exercise, or go to a movie with a friend. Little by little you will start to feel better. Once you feel better learn from this and by all means set your standards higher. Don't settle for a cheater.
  • Feb 23, 2015, 08:22 AM
    talaniman
    You cannot imagine a life without a lying cheater? You became a slave to a fool who doesn't care? You gave your heart to the wrong person, and you need to take it back and care about yourself, and not him. This wasn't love in the first place just a very unhealthy addiction to POISON.
  • Feb 23, 2015, 04:11 PM
    Precious7
    I agree with Tal! I know it doesn't feel good or fare when you are doing it the right and still everything breaks off. But you've got to do it what you got to do. Don't only give him a space but also give him free forever holiday from your life. And you be thankful that you've found out everything in the right time. And move on, its not easy but its possible. Why waste your time, money, energy, effort or Life for a cheater? Or Please save your love for the one who truly deserve it.
    All the best! :)
  • Feb 25, 2015, 12:45 AM
    CARMELLO DIAGO
    He doesn't want me, I get it but I still love him. How do I move on? I know its not healthy but I just wish there was away back to each other.Im a indepentend woman of 25 years and most of the time I tell myslf that I don't need a man as I'm working for myslf/doing everything for myslf. Why isit so hard to forget about him? I cry t God almost every night, hoping and praying that he will realise his mistake. Please help me as it feels as if I'm losing my mind.
  • Feb 25, 2015, 07:11 AM
    talaniman
    I hope and pray that you as an independent woman realize YOUR mistake of giving your heart to a lying, cheating fool, and do better than that for YOURSELF. Eventually you will get your sanity back if you return to being that independent woman you were before you ran into this fool.

    Takes time for sure.

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