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  • Jan 10, 2015, 10:38 PM
    Colby Kennedy
    No sex
    My girlfriend is pregnant and I'm a horny teenager and we fight about sex and she's not into sex I was used to having sex like almost everyday for few months before me and her got together and now its no sex we've had it three times in five months and masturbation doesn't do it for me and my minds always on sex it hurts thinking about it and I get yelled at if I touch her by her vagina
  • Jan 10, 2015, 10:56 PM
    J_9
    And your question is?

    Maybe if you controlled your hormones you wouldn't be a teenage father.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 05:24 AM
    Oliver2011
    Totally understandable since at this special time it's all about you and your needs.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 08:11 AM
    joypulv
    You get the whiny penis award for the 21st century. Nobody will top this complaint for the next 85 years.
    Sorry we are all out of plastic whiny penises, but you do get a prize with it: a four minute video on creative masturbation. You do have hands, right? If not, we have another video.
    BTW - who's paying for the next 18 years of the child's life?
  • Jan 11, 2015, 08:20 AM
    J_9
    You won't find any sympathy here. Keep your penis in your pants, you have bigger fish to fry right now.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 08:48 AM
    Oliver2011
    Thank you ladies. I totally agree with the both.

    This relationship will obviously last forever since he puts the needs of baby momma and the child up so high.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 10:43 AM
    Jake2008
    You are a perfect example of why children, shouldn't be having children.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 11:37 AM
    catonsville
    For fear of getting placed on probation (additional), I will not say what I am thinking about you. If it were not the case, I would unload on you Mr. Penis. Self Serving Generation. Duh
  • Jan 11, 2015, 02:25 PM
    DoulaLC
    How much thought have you put into her needs at the moment? Has she been ill or uncomfortable? Do you keep trying to make a move when you know she isn't interested? Are you putting your wants ahead of her needs? What have you done to be comforting, without expecting it to lead to sex?

    You don't get points for just a few times. It has to be routinely helping, being supportive, and offering comfort and understanding.

    Frankly, very few teenage boys will have the maturity to realize that or to understand why it's so important at this time.

    Your wants will have to be put on hold for now. Who knows, if you can turn your thoughts around and show her more understanding, she may have a return to wanting to be intimate at some point, but you behave in such a manner not because you are hoping for sex, but because it is a loving and expected behavior.

    If you can't find it in yourself to put her first, especially now, maybe you should rethink the relationship. She is going to need your support even more once baby is here, so best start fast forwarding your growing up now.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 03:48 PM
    odinn7
    Is it your baby or was she pregnant before you got together with her? really, this is irrelevant other than to clear up the question due to how you wrote it but I would still like to know.

    I pretty much agree with everything else that was said. You're a whiny little guy, aren't you? If she's not giving you what you need, do her a favor and break up with her. I think she will be so much better off.
  • Jan 11, 2015, 04:11 PM
    Alty
    Awww, you poor dear, you have to go without sex while your girlfriend is pregnant. Would you like to trade places with her for 9 months? Bet you wouldn't last a day!

    Pregnancy is hard. Nausea, swollen ankles, headaches, backaches, a changing body, lack of sleep, and you expect her to put out just because you're horny?

    Grow up!

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