I have never had a problem getting girls ever it has always been to easy for me I grew up with four girls I am not gay or bi but I am comfortable with my sexuality. Not to long ago I was living on cape cod mass. And I was dating the girl I thought I was going to be with for the rest of my life I had to move back to Michigan for family issues and after about a month of being away from her she broke up with me for another guy she didn't believe I was coming back and when I asked her for some stuff I left there she flipped out on me and called me a piece of and then told me how many times she cheated on me when we were dating.. she even messed up my credit when a tax form was accidentally sent to her house. I wold the police about it but they had no evidence about any of it. But now I go to the club every weekend I meet all sorts of girls and get all sorts of numbers but when I pursue those girls they seem to not want anything to do with me I am a nice guy and there is not a guy out there that is more of a gentalman then me I treat every girl with respect and know I can't even get one when it was so easy before my last girlfriend. Please tell me what to do cause I can't figure it out my email address is [email protected]. Please help me out.

Sincerely,
Kory lupinski

You describe yourself as a gentleman. I am sure that you are. Perhaps you might want to consider meeting girls in activities that interest you. They would be less likely to brush you off because you would have mutual interests. Just a suggestion.

It would be helpful to know about the things that interest you in life.

I am a break dancer I dance that is my activity and this girl I danced with I have never seen a girl move like that before.. she moved so softly and loose and I want to pursue her but don't want to get rejected!

Rejection is a part of life. How we deal with it is one of the ways that we learn and grow stronger. No one is going to be liked by everyone. If not her, then try another person. Just be yourself, though. And, not someone who you aren't. Got to live with who you are first. I am sure that you will find someone. There are lots of fish in the sea.

Not for me! Couldn't find the right girl if my life depended on it always one night stands!

I just want you to know that I feel your pain. I too would describe myself as a gentleman that treats woman with respect. It comes from the values of growing up in Michigan. I didn't believe this till recently but people can get an aura about you without you talking. You are probably like me and attract a lot of cute bubbly bar one night stands. Don't put off the vibe that you can't get a respectable woman. Eventually one will come. I don't know if this helps, but I am in the same situation and I am just focusing on putting out a good vibe, without looking like the perfect one night stand!

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Originally Posted by kory_lupinski

i am a break dancer i dance that is my activity and this girl i danced with i have never seen a girl move like that before.. she moved so softly and loose and i want to persue her but don't want to get rejected!!

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Yeah. This might be the problem, are you actualy saying that Break dance, like from the eary 80'S?