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  • Nov 28, 2014, 08:03 PM
    kelitak234
    I just got engaged and I hate my ring!
    Is it awful to tell my fiancé that I hate my engagement ring?
    It's over 2 CT"s and it's too flashy and not my taste at all. I feel funny wearing it because it's really not my taste but I don't want to hurt his feelings.. I'm not sure what to do.I know he spent a small fortune on it as well.
    Thank you
  • Nov 28, 2014, 08:48 PM
    J_9
    I'm very rarely speechless. This is one of those rare times.

    You need to sit down and talk to him. Don't tell him you hate it, but rather that you think it may be too extravagant and that the money toward the ring could be better spent toward the wedding.
  • Nov 28, 2014, 10:52 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    First, I guess it is just me, I can't believe he would buy it, without you helping to pick it out.

    With that said, are you planning to wear it after the wedding, or just on special occasions after the wedding?

    But if you just hate it, time to tell him and be honest

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