Ask Me Help Desk - Can I be pregnant?

Hi I'm in a live in relationship with my boyfriend but we never have intercourse because of religious reasons. But we do oral as in his penis around my vagina and he ejacuates outside sometimes on my legs or stomach. But yesterday he did it right at the opening of my vagina and his sperms went inside but I laid in the bed for 15-20 minutes and as soon as I got up to go to the loo I felt like something is leaking out and I looked on my undies it was all there.
Also it was the 15th day after my periods so I'm assuming I was ovulating as I am in the middle of my cycle. The same thing had happened to me last year as well and got nausea and morning sickness but as I wasn't sure what it is I never bothered but my periods came 2 weeks early so I assumed that I miscarried
Now can someone please help? Can I be pregnant even if his sperms leaked out? I'm not worried of being pregnant. What are the chances?
Please help

If his sperm went inside you, you could be pregnant. You'll have to wait until your period is two weeks late and test with the first urine of the morning. You live together and don't have intercourse, but what you're doing can get you pregnant. Is that OK in your religion?

The virgin birth isn't really that impossible. In fact, Mary likely played the same games you're playing and just because her hymen was intact, she pulled off the "I'm a virgin" spiel. They really didn't know better back then.

Sperm can swim. If he ejaculated near your vagina, pregnancy is possible. Unlikely, but definitely possible, and it has happened, more than once. There have been many virgin births, all from girls that played the same games you're playing, thinking they're okay because they're not having "sex".

The only way to diagnose pregnancy is to test after you miss a period. So you'll have to wait and see.

The main issue is that you're fooling yourself into thinking that because he doesn't put his penis all the way into your vagina, you're somehow living a religious life. You live together, and even though he's not sticking it in, you're still having sex. Your hymen may be intact, but you're not a virgin, you're having sex. You really need to stop kidding yourself about that.

"But we do oral as in his penis around my vagina" WHAT?

Maybe you should learn how all of this works before you think about having children.

First, sorry I am going to say BULL. If having sex is against your religion, having oral sex, and being naked with the boy is going to also be against your religion. You are just trying to justify doing some sexual activity.

With that said, there is no danger of pregnancy in oral sex.

Masturbation near your vaginal is different, there is a greater chance and if the fluid goes in, a chance.

1. no last year you did not have a miscarriage, you do not get pregnancy every time, pregnancy does happen, but if you had a normal period, you just did not get pregnancy.

2. NO, ovulation does not always happen 14 days after period, it does for some women, but the only way you will know, your ovulation dates is to test for it, medically. So at this point you do not really know if you were or not.

At this point, you wait and see if you have a period, normally there is no signs what so ever, until you miss a period.

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we do oral as in his penis around my vagina and he ejacuates outside sometimes on my legs

I think you are confused. Oral sex is when you have your mouth on his penis or when he has his mouth on your vagina. Oral sex has nothing to do with his penis anywhere near your vagina.

Before you get naked again I suggest you brush up on your sex education.

I agree with Fr_Chuck (and the others too)... Oral sex IS having sex. Trying to convince yourself otherwise is only lying to yourself and it changes nothing.

If you think oral sex is "not having sex"... then you wouldn't be upset if your partner was "not having sex" with multiple other people too. Maybe from both genders even.