If you pressure someone you're married to by talk into sex is it rape?

Loaded question with not enough details. However no means no regardless of the details.

What do you mean? Your question is not clear. Did you mean that if one spouse pressures another to have sex while that spouse don't want to?

Yes spousal rape IS possible (thats what it would be called when it's a spouse).. and there have been cases of people being charged and convicted. A person doesn't give up their right to say no at any given time just because they got married to you. It is a damn good reason to file for divorce if they consistantly refuse to have sex with you however.

Rape is rape. When one person says no but is forced into sex, it's rape.

If you mean begging and pleading and getting sex from your wife, its not rape if you get it, to be shut up. If you use force, threats, or drugs, after being told NO, that's definitely RAPE. Begging is pathetic, but not rape.

What if she tells you to shut up, and leave her alone? Will you keep talking to get sex until she pops you in the eye, and banishes you from the bed?

That too is pathetic.