Hello. I met this guy off the Internet and he seemed to be very nice. He have never mistreated me nor anything wrong. I once asked him his goals in life and where he planned to be in the next 5 years. Well, I discovered we don't have the similar goals in life. I don't expect him to have the exact goals, but we should be at least somewhat on the same path. Right? Well, I decided that I would break it off being that I knew this was not what I wanted. I am ready for settling down and having something serious. He says he is building something with me when I go there and break it off because I am afraid of being hurt by him. To add to it, I left him an voicemail when I did break up with him.
However, I realized what I did and called him and we discussed it. He told me that he is now afraid. That I was an "unpredictable" woman. He never would explain any further. What I don't understand is he still lets me come over whenever I call him to come see him. We are suppose to be friends. However, since I made this move, he doesn't call me at all. I do all the calling now. I spend the night with him and he doesn't even try to make love with me anymore. He just touches on me and that's all.
The other night when we were lying in bed, I told him I had his back and that if he needed anything to not hesitate to ask me. He grab my hand tightly and kissed me. He behaves as if he still likes me, but he doesn't call at all. I do all the calling. What is up with this? Should I leave him alone or what? I want him back, but I feel like I am chasing and begging. Will he ever give me another chance or is he just observing me for now and later we will get back together? Please help me. Thank you.
