I have recently been granted sole legal and physical custody of my children, ages 12 and 14 in the state of Maryland. They ( the children) had a lawyer appointed the case. The court said it was in the "best interest of the children". The father has not shown any interest in seeing them, and has an arrears amount in excess of $12000. The children have expressed an interest in having my husband adopting them and changing their last name. Their biological father is currently on parole for a violent crime against his ex. My question is, do I need his permission?