well guys don't want to say the whole story as you all know my x girl and I have been basically been broken up for 4 months we both had same fault's after making up and being friends... We both love each other but don't feel that spark we always text each other through out the day... and both say I love you to each other etc... and both feel and carre.. but it just dose't feel the same... I'm so lost.. I miss the feelings we use to have before the break up... is there any advice or experiacnes anyone has had or has? Its been two weeks since we've been talking and yes I know it takes a lot of time... but should I quit saying I love her? Limit my texting and talk time any advice? Help

Ive been in a similar situation you. If you ever want to get the feeling back or want her to start feeling something you definitely need to stop mentoning that "you love her". That is the first step in this. You need to not contact her as oten and let hr wonder what you sre doing for a bit you will be surprised at hr reaction. I f she contacts you there's no reason to be all over her the sooner she starts to realise that you are OK and thus this will be happening by you not acting like you need her she will start to feel she wants to be with you. Be kind to her but don't smother her stop all the texting that's not getting her back that's just letting her know your still little wimpy boy chasing her around she wants a mysterious guy who knows how to have a good time... You say you always text each other but then you said its been two weeks so are you talking andteting or not??

Yes were talking we want to get back together but just don't feel the passion as of now its just not the same... I know time will tell us but what can I do to help spark the flames? I already have her back... we know how much each of us mean to each other but the passion for us is just not there I dunoo hwo to say it

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Usually once it's gone it's gone but if you have hope and faith.. then take things slow... it works better that way... don't rush into things... rather let it flow and u will realize what it's worth... if you don't feel the sparks still... then just let go man... it was never meant to be yours.. u get my point?