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  • Apr 7, 2007, 08:59 PM
    groovygal
    Needs space?
    When a man who has intimacy problems asks for "time and space" is he just stalling a breakup? How much time is too much time? Can I call him after a week?
  • Apr 7, 2007, 11:25 PM
    chuff
    I don't think the time and space have anything to do with being intimate.

    I wouldn't call him at all. Let him go and if he calls you then I guess you can take it from there.
  • Apr 7, 2007, 11:52 PM
    groovygal
    Thank you for you input, Chuff. I would define intimacy as emotional intimacy, and I would argue that if someone is not emotionally ready then they will naturally seek time and space. I recall past dating relationships when I have been on the rebound or not ready for a serious relationship... and I always took time and space, usually without asking for it.
    But I will try to not call him.
  • Apr 8, 2007, 02:46 AM
    mckenzie134
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by groovygal
    when a man who has intimacy problems asks for "time and space" is he just stalling a breakup? how much time is too much time? can i call him after a week?

    Yes you can call him after a week, Intimacy problems I'm not sure if that's the correct reasons may be some other reasons he is not telling you the truth...

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