I had my house for 3yrs. And now my exboyfriend threatened me to put his name on the deed with right of survivorship a yr. ago... I am the only one on the loan and what can I do to get him off if he doesn't want to sign a quit claim because I have a restraining order against him now and I would like to cut all ties with him even if it means to let house go into foreclosure. Can I refinance without him present cause I am the only mortgage holder