My partner cheated on me while I was in jail.
I went to prison January 2014 for 7 months. I got out September 4th, 2014. I got a girlfriend who is 20 I'm 26. We have been together 6 years, and have a 3 year old son together. She came up and visited me a few times, we wrote to each other all the time. She came up and visited me one day in prison and said she was unfaithful and I forgave her there on the spot, and she said she would not do it again. She used to say how horney she was and how much she missed me etc when I was inside, but she started not to mention these things in letters etc and I suspected something was up but wasn't to sure. So I put it behind me and got on with my sentence.
Now since being out of prison, I said to her whatever has happened or went on while I was in jail happened,There is nothing I can do about the past,. I'm partly to blame because I put myself in jail in the first place, she said to me none of this would have happened if I was there, so its took her 3 to 5 days to open up to me and tell me everything that has went on while I was in jail, the reason why she took so long to tell me was she thought I was going to leave her after I found out the truth, but I'm willing to forgive, and put it behind me, and move on from the past, and change for the future to make our relationship better for me, her. and our son to be a family together.
My partner said to me she has slept with 4 people when I was in prison, I thought it was only 1,Now let me take you threw what happend with these people from 1 to 4 and what she has told me from her words,guy 1 she since told me she slept with a guy who I used to be friends but we all used to knock about in the day together,, then the second guy was of Plenty of Fish, and he said he wanted a relationship and got what he wanted, a shag, and never got in contact again. Guy 3 was a friend of mine, I thought was alright he asked my girlfriend where I was one day, and she said in jail. He replied, heres my number, so they both knew what they were doing. 4th guy now she had a fling with this guy up until 2 weeks before I got of jail and was seeing him. He lives around the corner from my girlfriend and got a partner with a kid and recently gave birth to a new born about 4 to 5 weeks old anyway. She went round there to the mother and baby unit one day to get some weed off him for a friend,What happened they ended up shagging while the new born baby was in the other room. Then like a few days later he stayed at hers for 5 days in a row comfernting her snuggling all the stuff, i should of been doing but wasent because i put my stupid in jail.They were going to make a go of things and have a relationship but she wouldent brake up with me an couldent do it.
Guy 4 said broke up with him NOW you need to tell him.guy 4 , has ended his relactionship to get with my girlfriend.. , but she couldn't do it. She told me and she loved me to much to do it. In her head she thought, if he's done that to his girlfriend who hes got 2 kids one being just born then he will do it to her too. Its was way to full on and going to quick etc she said to guy 4 they were supposto meet but he switched his fone of whalst he was in another town workin.,my girlfriend Said its My Fault and that wouldent of happened if i was there,is that true? she didn't have me there to comfort her, give her that attention, sex and everything, so when I was away she went looking for it I guess,would that be right? but I've got all the truth out from her now and her nan advised her to get it all out in the open, everythings out just tell him and unburden yourself wich she has done.
Now I'm willing to forgive her she said she's scared I'm going to screw her over and get my own back, but I'm not. Also she said she felt ashamed and she felt at the time she didn't deserve to be with me,since being out of prison. because of what she did to me. BUTTT I said I'll forgive you and we will move on from this and give things a fresh start. SO now we are open I said to her, no bull, no lies, if people talk to you let me know and me visa versa. So we are starting a new relationship from scratch, should i really be intrested in all the details of what happened with each person?or should i just know who and how many?,i want to deal with these people in my own way and smash them up or should i just not bother with these dicks?she hasent contect these 4 people they havent contacted her she told me she will tell me if they try to get in touch etc,Me and my partner have a Mutual friend now shes told him about these people,and what happened etc,im also close friends with him he knows the people who shes been with,i spoke to him and said look i know were good mates i dont expect you to tell me anything as you dont wana be stuck in the middle, my girlfriend has told me she was loyal whalst i was in jail.,but if anything has gone on that my girlfriend isent telling me,basicley im pretending to our friend i dont know nothing when in reality i know evrything, im tellin Our Mutual friend for the simple reasion to tell these people steve dosent know nothing what went on, now dont contact him or his girlfriend etc,an blow the game away because if he finds out then BOOM,cats out the BAG,