Please help me anyone, especially moms, I'm only 15 years old and I just lost my virginty Monday morning, Sept. 8th. And I'm so scared I'm pregnant. It is now September 13th. The first couple days after I lost my virginity I felt fine, I barely bled and everything was normal. Well then him and I met up again Wednesday morning and had sex again, and since then I have been super bloated, stomach aches, and I've spotted twice, once yesterday and once today:( it feels like there's pressure on my whole stomach but especially around my left ovary, my period isn't suppose to start until next week, but I'm so scared :( I don't have any headaches or my breasts don't feel enlarged or hurt or anything... but still, why does my stomach feel so weird and how come I spotted 4 and 5 days after losing my virginty? Btw, we used protection for most of the time, until he ejaculated, then he cleaned it off, and he put it inside me without a condom for just a little bit. Can I get pregnant my first time? And would I be experiencing symptoms so soon? Please help ;-( please feel free to ask any questions please, I will answer them. Another thing, my stomach aches don't hurt like mensturation cramps do, they are in my upper abdomen and its like a tight pressurized feeling. Thanks again, please help:(

Of course you can get pregnant the first time. You can get pregnant anytime you have sex. No form of birth control is 100% effective. That said, it would be way too early for you to be experiencing any symptoms.

If you are not prepared to be a mother you should not be having sex.

I know, I realize that now and I swear I won't have sex again until I'm ready, I've never been so stupid in all my life. Thank you for responding.

It is too early to have any pregnancy signs. So your worry is taking most likely normal things that happen to you, and building them into worry.

Can you be pregnant, yes, of course, condoms have a 3 to 18 percent failure rate, and anytime without a condom, increases the risk.

Now you just have to wait, if the period, is missed, and you are over 14 days late, you will need to do a pregnancy test.

Thank you Fr. Chuck, you have eased my mind a little. I don't plan on having sex anytime soon.

Just wanted to add, for future reference, that his action of cleaning off his penis after he ejaculated in the condom, and then re-entering you, is one of the reasons for the failure rate of using condoms.

Any semen/sperm remaining in his penis can still find it's way inside you without another ejaculation. Never should a penis enter you without a condom on... before, during, or after, and you should also look into the various forms of birth control for yourself to use when you do decide to have sex in the future.

Okay... I had sex on the 8th and the 11th of September, but my period started on the 16th... everything was normal and I didn't think I was pregnant until about two days ago, today is the 28th of September, I got extremely bloated and gassy and felt very uncomfortable... now today I've been having stomach aches and nausea and a fever of 99.7F... I'm still a little bloated and gassy but I've been having weird feelings down near my ovaries... and I've had a headache all day... is it possible I'm just ovulating? I got a thick egg white discharge which usually comes with ovulating.. but why am I feeling so crappy? The sex was protected for the most part and it wasn't in a fertile part of the month. Please tell me what u think.

You could be ovulating, or it could be an intestinal bug. You can only wait to see what happens with your next period.

Sounds more like the flu, not pregnancy,

You need to wait and see ,if you get the next period

Okay, here it goes, we had mostly (emphasizing the mostly) protected sex on the 8th and the 11th of September 2014. It was no where near the time of ovulation for me because my period started on the 16th, it was a normal painful full period... about a week later I had severe bloating and now I am having every symtpon of pregnancy except the tender breasts. It could be a flu, which is going around.. but it doesn't feel like one.. it also could be really late side effects of a two day dose of diflucan I took for a yeast infection.. but the yeast infection has nothing to do with me possibly being pregnant because I literally got it the day after we had sex... So Even though I had my period can I still take a pregnancy test now and get an accurate result? Or do I have to wait 2½ weeks for my next period to start and end... please give me all your thoughts on this including whether you think I'm pregnant or not. Thank you

Can you take a pregnancy test and get an accurate result even though you had your period ? I still think there's a possibility I might be pregnant because we had sex three days before my period started... its been about two weeks since we had sex, could I still get an accurate answer?

You may or may not have ovulated around the time that you had sex, but if you had a pretty normal period afterwards, odds are you are not pregnant. A pregnancy won't show a positive if you had an actual period because you wouldn't be pregnant, however, some people do have some bleeding in early pregnancy. Often is it a bit different from their norm however and they just think it was an off cycle. If you are running a fever, feel run down, maybe achy, and are just feeling unwell, it is likely the flu or another illness that you are fighting.

If it would ease your mind, try a pregnancy test. Otherwise, wait and see what happens with your next period. If you continue to feel unwell after several more days, you may want to see your doctor. They can do a pregnancy test there, but also check for another possible cause for your symptoms.

Please stop starting new questions over the same issue. Your threads have been merged. Any further follow-up should be posted as a reply in this thread.

And your stress is probably what is causing your symptoms.