My mom... she has changed she's so unfair to me now but to my brother, she loves him like a blueberry... when my brother even broke the T.V stand, my mother said, "everybody does mistakes and my mother gave him a snack...."

What would happen if I did that?.

She would get her shoe or a stick and hit me out of my pants.

Let me tell you something else.

Whenever there's really good food like chicken from Chicken inn, She ALWAYS gives my brother Matthew more and when I ask, its like a cow asking for grass in the desert in other words, NO.

But before she was so nice

And I know some people will think "Your mother doesn't hate you you may feel that way but she loves you so much..."

No. it's not like that, she actually hates me what should I do?

Mostly you sound like just about every single sibling in the entire world.
How old are you? How old is your brother? Are you male or female?

Let's see... got to think back about 60 years... my sister and I thought my brother got away with everything because 'boys will be boys.. ' and he didn't have to do any household chores except take out the garbage... he and my sister thought I was a spoiled brat and got away with everything because I'm the youngest... please find me a family who doesn't think some variation on this...

Sounds like the typical teenager. I agree with joypulv. Only I don't have to think back quite as far.

How do you deal with her? You go up to her with a big smile and ask her if you can do the laundry or wash the kitchen floor or clean the bathroom (or whatever), and do it very, very well. Also, pitch in and help around the house without waiting for her to nag you, especially if you have regular chores that you take your time getting around to doing.

I was the oldest of four. My baby brother was a surprise, born after the rest of us were in school all day. Our parents doted on him; my sibs and I thought he got away with all sorts of things and was the favorite child. It turned out he became the child who took care of our parents as they aged, and is still taking care of our mom in her 90s.

The best way to deal with a stubborn parent is give them the benefit of a doubt and figure they know what they are doing, and maybe you don't.

Here I think I would've to disagree with the senior members. I know you sound like a little girl and may be it is better to listen to all the other advice offered than mine... n before I offer my 0 cent worth advice.. I'm a father of 3.. One beautiful girl (9), Two handsome boys (6 & 3).

The secret to which no parent will agree is that "Yes, we do have our favourites!" younger ones easily become favourites as they are cute.. but trust me.. even I will never accept this in front of my own kids.. & if I'm doing my job right.. they will never know which one is my favourite.. (cause poor thing gets double the scolding from me)..

So yes, may be you are in the same situation.. you are favourite and to hide it, your mum tries to be tough & more stern with you!.

Take it easy, cherish this time as the world out there is much more scary! Once you start your real life, you'll miss these times with your parents.

Cheers,
R