Unable control my bowel, always stuck in the house close to the bathroom, any suggestion?

See a doctor first to determine a reason and if there is a cure? Start buying Depends diapers for adults? Yes they do make them. You even see them advertised on TV. That's what other people with this problem do. You might have even talked to some of them and never knew it.

If you haven't already, you really should see a doctor about this first.