So my ex girlfriend and I dated for a year and she said she needed her space to figure out what she has to do in school, she's in college and she has to concentrate on school and said she needs a break/her space. We are the type of couple that we talk all day everyday, if we aren't talking on the phone, we are texting. She goes to school a few hours away so I don't get to see her much. She started hangin out with a buddy of mine up there, totally innocent, but the roommate known for trying to get with guys ex-girlfriends. He says they are just friends and so does she but they talk a lot. And she called me today because I was talking to him telling him I was going to trust him while hangin out with her. She yelled at me and said never to call her again and that she was going to block my number.I just wasn't giving her space I love the girl a lot, but I try giving her space but she's doing things to make me want to call her. Do you think she actually meant that we will never talk again or do you think she was just angry and didn't mean it. I don't plan on talking to her for a while because she needs her space. I don't know what to do anymore, I love her. But as she was yelling she said I pushed her away. Can I get her back? If I gave her space?

They only thing you can do is give her what she wants. Let her call you when she wants but for your part worry about yourself and your own life. Leave her alone.

You know, I've been thinking... This whol asking for space thing... Is it basically just asking for the other person to screw up and then allow for the one, the dumper, to more or less do as their heart desires (leave) without feeling bad about it?

I mean, how often do people honestly disappear in these circumstances, especially if they're in their first real relationship?

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Originally Posted by jjensen21

So my ex girlfriend and I dated for a year and she said she needed her space to figure out what she has to do in school, shes in college and she has to concentrate on school and said she needs a break/her space. We are the type of couple that we talk all day everyday, if we arent talkin on the phone, we are texting. She goes to school a few hours away so i dont get to see her much. She started hangin out with a buddy of mine up there, totally innocent, but the roomate known for trying to get with guys ex-girlfriends. he says they are just friends and so does she but they talk a lot. and she called me today bc i was talking to him telling him i was gunna trust him while hangin out with her. she yelled at me and said never to call her again and that she was gunna block my number.i just wasnt giving her space i love the girl a lot, but i try giving her space but shes doing things to make me wanna call her. do you think she actually ment that we will never talk again or do you think she was just angry and didnt mean it. i dont plan on talkin to her for a while because she needs her space. I dont know what to do anymore, i love her. but as she was yelling she said i pushed her away. can i get her back? if i gave her space?

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If u try... u can always get her back. Just show her how much you want her back