A loved one considering selfharm
I have someone extremely close to me who is considering selfharm and has told me this, I have tried telling them that no good comes out of selfharm as I know from personal experience (I selfharmed when a close relative of mine passed away and I couldn't cope with that well, I haven't selfharmed since, the loved one who is considering selfharm knows about this and told me I never should have done it). The circumstances in which the person wants to selfharm because of is not one caused by the passing away of a loved one, failure in a career or relationship, insecurities or because of any abuse, but because this person misses someone that they care about. I don't know what to do, I'm scared.