This is the first problem that I ever have and first guy that I ever met in my life.. I know him and be with him over than one month I'm 24 he just 23.. All the guys that I date or be with before they always want to sleep with me even the first night we met and I always turn guys head.. some people even think I'm a model only because I'm quite short and I know myself that I'm not ugly at all (no don't think I love myself too much OK! ) I know that he doesn't have much sex or women before I can tell by first time we had sex after we be together for 12 days... He just put his thing inside mine just like 2 second then he came.. I knew it right away but I don't care cause I know that I really like him and I gave him a smile and said "don't worry we'll do it again" and we did.. He even said he never been with the girl like me before.. I meant we been together like 24 hour.. Guys that I been with before they never take their's hands away from me kiss me all the time want to have sex with me all the time but this guy so so cold I always initiate about everything kiss,cuddle even sex always me initiate so weird I'm not be myself when I'm with him and at the same time why can't I get rid of him like I always did to all the boys it was so easy to me before to say goodbye to some boy but why can't with him... Who can tell me this why? We have sex just 7 times seen we be together how is that? My best friend so so surprise when I told her.. When we have sex he came really fast and I didn't come normally guys I been with before they will be so worry and will do everything to make me come but this guy just ignore it like nothing happen.. one day after we had sex and I didn't come so I wait for a bit then I asked him can we do it again he said "I just worry about my " he said he hurts his thing.. Oh my god! I can't believe I ask a boy for sex and he even said noooo.. This is I really don't understand and its drive me crazy... What should I do? Please help!!

Wow. Well maybe there is something that is bothering him, something that he has in his head that has effected his ability to communicate with the world - not like a disease but like an event or something like that... how well do you know him? I'm a guy and I'm not afraid to admit that I have had problems like your boyfriend that I was able to link back to an event that horrified me. When I finally got it off my chest and told someone, problem solved. Maybe you should try talking to him if you really like him.

Maybe he dosen't think that you are as hot as you do. Maybe he can't get it up again. There are a lot of things that could be going on right now. I had this chick before that thought that she was extremely hot that every man must bow down, and jump at the opportunity to have sex with them. Maybe he is trying to break you get you out of that mentality. I hope you the best if all else fails talk to him and express how you feel.

Learn to "handle " things yourself

Ok how can you disagree with that? And does it drive you crazy in a good way or bad way? AND

Look nothing is probably wrong with your boyfriend... my girlfriend is hot as a stripper and all and she love's to have sex way much more then I do... I just have to tell her no sometimes... but does he still hold you carres u?now nothing is wrong with me I just don't put sex on my top priotery list even though I do love it and we do quite often I just don't get the urge as much as she does... Maybe your a nympho addicated to sex?have you asked yourself that!!

A nymph? That's a little harsh!!
In my experince, sex is not always great at the beginning. If this guy is neverous and hasn't learned to relax around you then he might just panick. If he hurts, there might be something wrong. Slow things down a bit. Have sex when you have time to do it properly. Spend time on fore play. Don't let him have it until you've had yours. If it still happens, ask him if there is anything you can do to help. If it hurts him try and get him to explain what hurts and why. Some guys have fore skin problems and some guys are just a little sensitive afterwards. If he insits there is not a problem then you need to make a decision about what is more important to you because if it isn't going to change you need to decide if you are well matched. Being mis matched sexually can cause a lot of problems later and some people are not welling to live without the sex they crave. BBRs girlfriend is clearly patient and is willing to make that sacrifice but are you?

P.S thinking you are hot is not loving yourself too much, it is loving yourself just enough! There is nothing sexier than someone who is confident!

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P.S thinking you are hot is not loving yourself too much, it is loving yourself just enough! There is nothing sexier than someone who is confident!

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I will second that. A confident woman is a far better sexual partner than one who is excessively timid. Unless you are into a control thing which I never was. I personally enjoy a woman who isn't afraid to tell me what she wants when she wants it. Saves having to guess , and saves her frustration not getting what she is afraid to ask for.