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  • Apr 5, 2007, 04:22 PM
    Froggie442
    How can I get over my resentment?
    My fiancé has a 16 year old son that he spends all his spare time with. Mind you, I am not jealous of the relationship they have... I think it's great that they have so many common interests (dirtbikes and such). The problem is, my fiancé always has time for his son, but when I want to do something with him, he's always tired or busy. Is it wrong of me to expect a little attention from my fiancé occasionally, or am I just being selfish?
  • Apr 5, 2007, 07:25 PM
    msrene39360
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Froggie442
    My fiance has a 16 year old son that he spends all his spare time with. Mind you, I am not jealous of the relationship they have.... I think it's great that they have so many common interests (dirtbikes and such). The problem is, my fiance always has time for his son, but when I want to do something with him, he's always tired or busy. Is it wrong of me to expect a little attention from my fiance occasionally, or am I just being selfish?

    He is tripping you need to get help both of you where is the boy's mother?
  • Apr 5, 2007, 07:42 PM
    moon light
    Yup... seems jelous.. but I think u need to balance it

    U dun leave his son but show cares n do sth for his son.. .
    Try to love his son
    Then those ideas won't come to u again :)
  • Apr 5, 2007, 10:02 PM
    talaniman
    A man is supposed to always have time for his son. 16 is an important time for a father and son to bond as men. Talk to him but don't butt in. He will be all yours soon.

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