Hi to all ! I went through the threads here and I want to confess that they are continuing to provide a source of strength to face, survive and give it back to my break up with a smile. Thanks all for sharing your experience and intelligence.
My case is similar to a few cases mentioned here particularly with the threads looking for a closure. My ex and me also had a misunderstanding/heated argument. The mistake was mine so I apologized, he texted me after a few days and continued to do so until one day after which he never texted again. I never asked him what happened. Then after around a week I came across this thread when I was trying to find why he left me so abruptly. I realized that it must have been the other girl. I am successfully moving on. It's been a fair 10-12 days nows. I know I will become like completely fine in some more days although I am still happy and enjoying rains (its rainy season here in India this time).
All I wanted to ascertain was that what he did was wrong, right? And what I am doing like moving on with my life with NC is right? Also I read that these kind of people circle back sometime later in our lives, I don't know why I so much want him to circle back so that I can reject him out right!
By the way we dated for 8 months. And it was fun (I so didn't wanted to say this line :/). He is 22 recently got placed in some other city while I am 25 and have faced a massive heart break before; and survived. But the realization that he is cheating on me with some other girl has given me a reason to throw him out of my life and not feel any hurt.