I have my toilets and sinks along with my washing machine getting clogged up with little orange pellets / crystals looks like fish eggs almost. What is thus and how do I fix?

It sounds like the RESIN tank is compromised and letting orange resin beads past the filter/screen of the water softener system. I'd have the water softener system checked and see if things can be salvaged or if you need a replacement unit...;)

Mark