I was going through my bank statements and I discovered that my boyfriend of two years had gone to a brothel. He never told me about that. When I confronted him with the printed proof, he first denied that it was a brothel; even though I already investigated it. Then he finally said that he did go there with some other guys, just to drink. I am confused, I don't know if he paid a prostitute for sex. I am three months pregnant, and I am really in love with him. I don't know if I should believe that he just went there to drink. What should I do? :confused:

Not to be negative, but if he went to a place like that and used his bank card to pay, what else might he be doing that he's paying for with cash?

I would say try talking to him again, but he will most likely lie unless you catch him in something, he doesn't seem like such a great guy!

Here you go. You're pregnant and he goes to a strip club or worse without your knowledge! He could have rectified it by telling you the next day ( like you would have done right?) but he didn't did he. So what do you do? Tell him what he did hurt you not because he went but because he didn't tell you till after you confronted him. The word trust comes to mind. You don't sound jealous so I don't think its an issue of you causing him to worry about your reaction ( this is what he will come back at you with ). Just tell him he needs to think about the two of you as two halves and what he does he should think about what he would want from you in the same situation.