I feel that me and my boyfriend are just friends. How do we make it real?

How old are you both... I have to ask because this really is self explanitory.

How old are you both and how long have you been a couple? Usually a couple is defined by the commitment they have for each other. So what is it you want changed in the relationship?

What's your definition of "real"?

I have a gut feeling they are about 12... or close to it.