I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because he's been ignoring me for 3 days. When I asked him why, he didn't answer till I force him to admit that he was bored with me, and finally he said yes. Our relationship was barely 2 weeks and he said that I was too hurried on making the decision. At the same time I've been texting with my ex and he said he would wait till I broke up with my boyfriend and we can get together. Is that the reason why I decided to break up with my boyfriend? I don't really want to be with my ex again but my boyfriend was ignoring me I don't know what to do.

How old are you? I'm guessing a very young teen, or preteen.

At your age relationships don't last long, mainly because people your age really don't know how to have a lasting relationship. They're just not ready for that sort of commitment.

You broke up with your boyfriend because he found you boring, and was ignoring you. Just because your ex boyfriend wants you back, doesn't mean you have to take him back.

Why not be single for a while, until you're a bit older and can handle a real relationship.

Good luck.

I agree with Alty... 2 weeks isn't a relationship... and he's not even a friend in that short of a time... much less a boyfriend. Focus on your schoolwork until you are older and can understand such things better.

We have been close since two years ago but he had a girlfriend back then so we split up. I have no idea what makes him bored, we had so much fun.

In two weeks?


That's life... not everyone that's a good or even great friend... has what it takes to be a boyfriend or girlfriend. And usually when it falls apart, you can't just go back to the way it was. Meaning you lose them as a friend. And why its a bad idea to casually make that jump without thinking it through.

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I don't really want to be with my ex again but my boyfriend was ignoring me I don't know what to do.

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Find a new guy if you need a guy that bad. Is your town that small?

Yes, You are right you are confused, even your present 2 weeks boyfriend. So better don't take risk, just chill and take your time. People will come and go. If you don't want to go back to your Ex, then don't go. And stick to that decision. And take a break, focus on your life, on your goals. Its worth it. :) Have a good day.

You were texting your ex. So you were not really over the ex yet, This was not even a boyfriend, in a few weeks, it is not even a relationship to break up from.

And you forced him to give you an answer, LOL, odds are he just told you want he thought you wanted to hear. The more obvious is that he did not even know he was ignoring you and in a few weeks had no idea what you expected.

So instead of talking to him, and asking him to pay more attention. ** unless you are unrealistic on demands of time, at three weeks. You did not even try to make it work either

You cannot force someone to like or love you. Your age probably does have some bearing on it, in the early teens, boys still want to hang with their friends and have some alone time. And girls at that age are moving on from dress up dolls and focusing that attention on boys. If after 2 weeks he is getting bored, move on. Find a hobby, other than focusing on boys.

I did a bit of research, looked at the posters other posts.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ex-770459.html

Apparently in October of 2013, she was 17. Most likely she's 18 by now.

That was a shock. Based on this post I would have sworn we were dealing with a preteen 12 years old, 13 at the oldest. This seems to be a lack of maturity.

One of the things that leads to disaster relationships, is having two guys on the go at the same time.

You were dating one, recently broke up, and at the same time you were with your (now) ex, you were in touch with your other ex, who has told you he'll wait for you till you break up with your current ex, so he can be your (new) revived ex.

See the confusion?

You cannot take 2 distinct paths in one relationship. One relationship= one relationship. One relationship that equals 2 relationships, will never, ever, work.

You are being unfair, knowing that your first ex, was really still in the picture, while you were dating your new ex. You were quite literally, keeping both exe's hanging, and that is not a very nice thing to do with people.

My advice? Leave them both alone. Learn to live without a 'man' in your life (I agree you sound like you're 12), until you can establish a certain code of honesty and integrity. When you have that, you can expect that of others, and increase the probabilities that you will be more successful.