My boyfriend, 19, always wants to fool around and I, 17, don't. He's had sex w/ 4 other people before me and I have never had sex. We've been together a year and it bothers me that fooling around until we almost have sex sex is all that he wants to do. He doesn't try to pressure me into sex and he tries to respect my decision to wait. However, he feels sexually frustrated when we don't fool around and says that our having sex would relieve this frustration. I love him and think he's worth making this relationship work and maybe having sex with in the near future, but I don't want to feel pressured.