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  • Apr 4, 2007, 02:04 PM
    moon light
    Paradox between one sided loves
    I got a problem...
    I never got a boyfriend before...
    Now I love a guy
    For one yr
    But he loves sb.. although I know that for 3 months ago...
    I can't forget him
    However...
    He is not a hot guy, but so intelligent ,smart and nice looking.. most imp of all he has leadership which I adore...

    While I'm interested in him..
    One of the hottest guys from another class is interesting in me
    But I never noticed as well as he never showed it to me too.. since I have never been in relationships,

    Even he waited me in MRT sometimes seems so honest to me...
    But when the schools are about to close, I know that he is interesting in me from his friend
    For real,since I'm so tired from waiting my love, I realli want to get a relationship to get revenge from my love, so I want to go out with sb who is hot but no intelligent and who I dun interested so much..

    So what shall I do?
    I'm in paradox...
    However.. I dun want to hear my love with another girl...
    I want him badly:(
  • Apr 4, 2007, 03:26 PM
    3blueeyedboo3
    Hmm this is tuff. Talking to this guy couldn't hurt ? And if it doesn't work out there is always that hott guy <3
  • Apr 5, 2007, 02:05 AM
    moon light
    Nope...
    But the problem is that I dun like his manner...
    Because I'm afraid that Hot guy will play me...
    Since I was played by that guy I love... I'm so so afraid to ve a relationship now... :(
    May be I'm in psycho since I ve never got a boyfriend
    But I don't know how to do..
    How to clear the suspecious?
  • Apr 5, 2007, 02:49 AM
    rol
    Forget the guy who's already in the relationship. Hes taken and not yours.

    And if you are not interested in the other one forget him also.

    Eventually you will find the right one!
  • Apr 5, 2007, 04:58 AM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    since I'm so tired from waiting my love, I realli want to get a relationship to get revenge from my love, so I want to go out with sb who is hot but no intelligent and who I dun interested so much..
    Very bad idea, to use some one to get back at some one else. VERY BAD IDEA!! Your so called love is doing nothing to you but living his own life, so accept it and stop obsessing over what he does. Some day you'll find that guy your looking for, but now you don't sound ready for an honest relationship.
  • Apr 5, 2007, 07:10 PM
    moon light
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Very bad idea, to use some one to get back at some one else. VERY BAD IDEA!!! Your so called love is doing nothing to you but living his own life, so accept it and stop obsessing over what he does. Some day you'll find that guy your looking for, but now you don't sound ready for an honest relationship.


    :) thnc for the reply...
    I deciede not to use tat guy who love me...
    But ah..
    It is very hard to forget my love
    Isn't it?
    I dun know how to forget.. so I now pretend to busy with my studies...
    But cant...
    Since my mind is always with him...
    I'm crazy! Help me...
    U know... it is strange that I so angry on him but not on that girl... I'm crazy!!
    It is about 6 months from now (since before his relationship), I try to forget him
    But... ah., cant
    What I want is that... I can relate with him as friends before...

    But it is so hard... any ans?
  • Apr 5, 2007, 08:24 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    but it is so hard... any ans?
    Focus on your life and find happiness in the things you do and let time heal you. It will take work and patients but eventually you will get over him. Sorry there are no magic or easy answers just a lot of hard work.
  • Apr 5, 2007, 08:38 PM
    moon light
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Focus on your life and find happiness in the things you do and let time heal you. It will take work and patients but eventually you will get over him. Sorry there are no magic or easy answers just a lot of hard work.


    I understand :) I will try... by the way I dun understand his mannars because now he try to connect with me again... may be some problems with his girlfriend?
    I dun understand him...
    More his mannars make me look him down...
    I realli think that he is so disgusting now ! :( :confused:
  • Apr 5, 2007, 08:46 PM
    talaniman
    Or maybe he thinks your easy or is he a player, HMMMM! You don't need that kind of crap! Sometimes what we think is gold ain't.
  • Apr 5, 2007, 09:09 PM
    moon light
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman
    Or maybe he thinks your easy or is he a player, HMMMM! You don't need that kind of crap! Sometimes what we think is gold ain't.

    OMG OMG
    So shameful... I m so cheap?
    :'(
    OK
    I won't join him again :I

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