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  • May 17, 2014, 02:14 AM
    natalya2223
    Afraid of pregnancy
    HI, I had sex like about 6 weeks ago. The condom broke but my ex boyfriend said there was no come or pre-come and I was on my period at the time. I got a pregnancy test and it came back negatve but I'm still scared and I just want some opinions.
  • May 17, 2014, 02:19 AM
    J_9
    You will have to wait to see if your next period comes as expected. If not, wait 2 weeks and test using first morning urine.
  • May 17, 2014, 03:04 AM
    ScottGem
    That's what you get for playing adult games when you are still a child. If the sex was 6 weeks ago and it was during your period, your period should have been due about 2 weeks ago. When did you take this test? Its time for another.
  • May 17, 2014, 05:38 AM
    natalya2223
    I got the test 2 days ago... & your telling me I already know. & I miss counted I did it on the 19 of last mouth it's the 17 I'm always late so...
  • May 17, 2014, 06:06 AM
    Fr_Chuck
    Try taking a test, each week, till either it is pregnant or you have a period.

    There is also some fluids if he was having sex, but the timing is a lot less likely.

    But now, you just have to wait.
  • May 17, 2014, 06:20 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    I got the test 2 days ago... & your telling me I already know. & I miss counted I did it on the 19 of last mouth it's the 17 I'm always late so...

    Ok, so lets get the facts straight. When was your period due?
  • May 17, 2014, 06:23 AM
    natalya2223
    Answer me!
    If you had sex on your period & if you got pregnant will your period stop ? plzz answer
  • May 17, 2014, 06:47 AM
    ScottGem
    First, please don't start new questions over the same issue. I've merged your two threads. Second, the post title is supposed to tell us what your question is about. Help and Answer Me! doesn't do that.

    You need to educate yourself on the reproductive process. Each cycle your uterine wall thickens in preparation of nurturing a fertilized egg. If no fertilized egg attaches, then the thickened wall is flushed from your system. This is a simplified explanation. So your period is an indication that you are not pregnant. Your period not coming is an indication you are.

    So I ask, again, when was your period due?
  • May 17, 2014, 06:52 AM
    natalya2223
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    Ok, so lets get the facts straight. When was your period due?

    I kind of don't have a due day I'm always a week late or a week early
  • May 17, 2014, 06:55 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    I kind of don't have a due day I'm always a week late or a week early

    Approximately when would be due? I realize you may have an irregular cycle, but most women have a general idea. Or tell us when your last period ended.
  • May 17, 2014, 07:04 AM
    natalya2223
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    Approximately when would be due? I realize you may have an irregular cycle, but most women have a general idea. Or tell us when your last period ended.

    the last was the16th & the month before that it was the 10th
  • May 17, 2014, 09:47 AM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    the last was the16th & the month before that it was the 10th

    Ok, so if your last period was the 16th of April then its too early to take an effective test. Wait until the end of May. If you still haven't gotten it, then take a test.
  • May 17, 2014, 09:49 AM
    DoulaLC
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    I got the test 2 days ago... & your telling me I already know. & I miss counted I did it on the 19 of last mouth it's the 17 I'm always late so...

    You had sex on the 19th of April, and it was about the 4th day of your period, is this correct?

    You won't become pregnant during a period (since ovulation has already occurred), but you can become pregnant from having sex during a period if you happen to ovulate soon after the period ends.

    Since your period last month started on the 16th, and the one before that started on the 10th, your periods are a bit irregular. You aren't late by much just yet on this one. Wait another week and see if it shows up. If not, try another test at that time.

    If that test is negative, you could test again the following week (if still no period), or wait and see what happens with your period for June.

    In the meantime... either decide to have no more sex (don't let a penis in or near your vagina) until you are able to provide for a child should pregnancy occur, or plan to start using birth control yourself, along with your boyfriend using condoms, to lessen the chances of an unplanned pregnancy.
  • May 17, 2014, 10:21 AM
    odinn7
    This is in Child & Teen Health so I have to ask...how old is the OP?

    You should be scared of becoming pregnant...you're not nearly close to being ready to be responsible for a baby.
  • May 17, 2014, 10:39 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    HI, I had sex like about 6 weeks ago. The condom broke but my ex boyfriend said there was no come or pre-come and I was on my period at the time. I got a pregnancy test and it came back negatve but I'm still scared and I just want some opinions.

    First part of that... total BS... if he was excited... then yes there was. Second part of that... some women can and do get pregnant on their period...
  • May 22, 2014, 12:36 PM
    natalya2223
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    This is in Child & Teen Health so I have to ask...how old is the OP?

    You should be scared of becoming pregnant...you're not nearly close to being ready to be responsible for a baby.

    Yeah... thanks your say something I already know...
  • May 22, 2014, 12:42 PM
    ScottGem
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    Yeah... thanks your say something I already know...

    If you already know it, then why are you in the situation you are in?
  • May 22, 2014, 12:47 PM
    odinn7
    You know but you put yourself in the position anyway. So, how old are you?
  • May 29, 2014, 10:53 PM
    cinnamongirlone
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by natalya2223 View Post
    If you had sex on your period & if you got pregnant will your period stop ? plzz answer

    You are not pregnant. Pregnancy can only occur during ovulation, which takes place at least 14 days after the first day of your period.
  • May 29, 2014, 11:40 PM
    odinn7
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by cinnamongirlone View Post
    You are not pregnant. Pregnancy can only occur during ovulation, which takes place at least 14 days after the first day of your period.

    You cannot say that 100% for certain.

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