Ask Me Help Desk

Ask Me Help Desk (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum.php)
-   Relationships (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forumdisplay.php?f=277)
-   -   What should I do? (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=790902)

  • Apr 30, 2014, 05:44 AM
    jashu
    What should I do?
    Hai folks!
    I am Jashu, 20 year old girl studying a professional course. I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. I had a tough time being with my ex because he was over possessive and doubtful. As days passed, I started to converse well with one of my classmates. In all project works we were teamed together due to alphabetical order. I started to like him gradually. He too spoke with me in a friendly manner. I haven't it told him about my previous relationship. I enjoyed ever moment that I spent with him. The very thought of his name would bring a smile on my face. But now, he is ignoring me purposefully. Even if I initiate a conversation he ends it abruptly with a single word. Don't know what to do. Should I ask him why he is doing so? It hurts a lot being away from him. Is he avoiding me because he learnt about my previous relationship?
  • Apr 30, 2014, 05:58 AM
    smoothy
    Never hurts to ask. And you really don't want to be with a guy who has a problem with you having a previous relationship. You didn't grow up in a cave without any human contact. You also don't want or need to be with a person who is posessive or controlling.
  • May 3, 2014, 08:17 AM
    jashu
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Never hurts to ask. And you really don't want to be with a guy who has a problem with you having a previous relationship. You didn't grow up in a cave without any human contact. You also don't want or need to be with a person who is posessive or controlling.
    Thanks for the reply. I did ask him why he was avoiding me. But, he did not answer. Now, I have made up my mind. I am not that low to beg him to talk with me. Rather I am going to ignore him and be what I am.
  • May 3, 2014, 02:07 PM
    catonsville
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by jashu View Post
    Thanks for the reply. I did ask him why he was avoiding me. But, he did not answer. Now, I have made up my mind. I am not that low to beg him to talk with me. Rather I am going to ignore him and be what I am.
    Way to Go. Don't waste your time on him, move on. You will be better off.
  • May 3, 2014, 02:14 PM
    Alty
    The fact that he won't even talk to you, won't tell you what's bothering him, is a huge red flag to avoid him. Imagine if you were in a relationship with him? Every time he got upset, he'd just ignore you, instead of talking things through. That's not healthy.

    You're better off without him. He's not boyfriend material.
  • May 4, 2014, 05:19 AM
    jashu
    Thank you :)
  • May 4, 2014, 05:21 AM
    jashu
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by catonsville View Post
    way to go. Don't waste your time on him, move on. You will be better off.
    Thank you :)

    • All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:55 PM.