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  • Apr 4, 2007, 05:46 AM
    sophia3x
    Why do straight women fool around with straight women: An open discussion.
    Ever wondered why straight women fool around with other straight (or gay) women?

    Ever tried it?


    Ever regretted it?

    Thoughts?
  • Apr 4, 2007, 10:51 AM
    Ash123
    Women are beautiful, and soft... and both sexes can appreciate it...
    So maybe that's it?

    But why it's not taboo to women not sure.

    They seem open to sharing all bodily things...

    I am not sure because I never wanted to fool around with a guy
    What it's all about exctly...
  • Apr 4, 2007, 11:59 AM
    aliceinchains88
    No I have never tried it, and never really thought about it. But some of my friends have... they were always drunk by the way. I think they do it to get the guys attention, and because they are drunk and horney, so they know that all the guys will look if they start making out with another girl... thats just what I think...
  • Apr 4, 2007, 09:06 PM
    Maricruz
    I think women in general are more open both physically and emotionally. Think about it this way, 2 couples meet at a party, they start talking by the end of the evening the women will know a lot about the other couple. We'll be lucky if the men bothered to find out where the other one works.

    I have never fooled around, and the times I've thought about it, I was stone cold sober myself.
  • Apr 5, 2007, 12:15 AM
    juneebug
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sophia3x
    Ever wondered why straight women fool around with other straight (or gay) women?

    Ever tried it?


    Ever regretted it?

    Thoughts?

    I think that all women have that simple curiosity, even if we don't admit it, therefor it makes it that much easier for straight women to do that with other straight women, because it is OK.
  • Apr 5, 2007, 09:15 AM
    Ash123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by juneebug
    I think that all women have that simple curiosity, even if we dont admit it, therefor it makes it that much easier for straight women to do that with other straight women, because it is ok.


    YES, but curiosity about... what exactly?
  • Apr 5, 2007, 01:25 PM
    Maricruz
    I think it's curiosity about being on the giving end of the sex equation. Meaning what it feels to make love TO a woman, get a guy's perspective... maybe? What a woman's body feels in your hands? I don't know... like I said, I've thought about it - specifically with one person - but that's as far as that will ever go. I don't see this person anymore.
  • Apr 6, 2007, 06:48 AM
    Ash123
    There must be a way that women interact with women... "share everything" and they view/share bodies in a different way than men too perhaps..
  • May 22, 2007, 03:47 PM
    klinus1997
    I think it is because women get sick of men and the bull. Best friends usually experiment even when not gay or bisexual just because they feel that comfortable. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I think a lot of bisexual women become bisexual because of their bad experiences with men... Only my opinion though
  • Jun 1, 2007, 04:39 AM
    fastteeth
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by sophia3x
    Ever wondered why straight women fool around with other straight (or gay) women?

    Ever tried it?


    Ever regretted it?

    Thoughts?

    Because they can't get a freakin man!! And there sick! :eek: duhhhh!!
  • Jun 1, 2007, 04:39 AM
    fastteeth
    Because they can't get a frakin man!! And there sick! And ungodly!!
  • Jun 1, 2007, 11:43 AM
    Ash123

    Women share ... all.


    Intimidating sometimes, but worth considering... in one's own relationship.
    The sharing turns to sex when it's just for fun, or they feel "bored" or "disillusioned" with the opposite sex - and because well, it's exciting to share something society all agrees is art.
  • Jun 1, 2007, 11:59 AM
    DrJ
    All women are naturally bisexual... whether they choose to admit it or not
  • Jun 1, 2007, 12:50 PM
    magprob
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by DrJizzle
    All women are naturally bisexual.... whether they choose to admit it or not

    Don't talk about my Mama like that! If that were so, then wouldn't it also be true for men? I just don't believe that.
  • Jun 1, 2007, 01:04 PM
    DrJ
    Why would you assume that something that is true for women should also be true for men? We are two very different creatures.

    God created woman as a beautiful creature.. to be loved by all. Naturally, that would include women as well. Simply looking at the natural behaviors among women, we can see this show itself time and time again... from very young too much older.
  • Jun 1, 2007, 01:15 PM
    magprob
    Maybe some, maybe even a lot, but not all. I don't think you can crowd female human sexuality all into one box.
  • Jun 1, 2007, 01:40 PM
    Ash123
    Hmmm....Some truth to both sides.


    I would weigh in here that based on the many women I have known in many different places, here are some VERY rough statistics:

    75% are curious.
    25% are simply not.
    Of the 70% - 30% of them would act on it if given the chance.
    Of those 30% I would say 10% would make a bisexual go of it.
    All stats are skewed up or down depending on who a woman is dating.
    If she's connected with a guy I'd knock each stat down a few %...
  • Jun 1, 2007, 01:54 PM
    DrJ
    Good stats... I would say of those 25% that are simply not curious, 100% of their "decision" is based on social &/or parental upbringing.

    Woman are attracted to other women because the very nature of a woman is to be attractive. Any woman who is repulsed by the idea is simply a product of her surroundings. Given the right time, the right place, and the right woman, any woman be intrigued at the very least.

    Its not degrading in anyway and I mean absolutely no offense to any women anywhere. It is simply the nature of a woman.
  • Jun 1, 2007, 02:16 PM
    rawr_itssonya
    Only girl I've ever fooled aound with was my best friend. Only reason we kiss or cuddle or even maekout from time to time is because we honestly love each other and instead of a hug or a high five, we give each other a peck on the lips. Rarely do we ever makeout in front of guys and that's only when one of us likes a guy and is tryn to get his attention(not everyone in the room). I don't know. I see it as a sign of affection. Not necessarily "fooling around"
  • Jun 1, 2007, 03:51 PM
    MummaCrash
    I know some girls get drunk and go off on a girly kissing spree but I don't know many girls that have actually kissed or played with other girls.

    I went through a bi-curious stage and it was really fun. We were not drunk, we were just friends sleeping over.
    It was like the girl I was with was my sexual equal, we both knew what each other wanted.
    I think women are beautiful and I ADORE the female body BUT I am straight and engaged, But that doesn't mean my curiosity differs. It's still there. :)
    I'm just appreciative of it and my partner is aware.

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