We are not legally separated. I have a pension that is paid monthly . Am I legally bound to hand over half ?

We are not legally separated. Am I required to give her half of my pension?

No, not if there is no divorce, separation, or other court order in place.

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Originally Posted by helpusal55

We are not legally separated. Am I required to give her half of my pension?

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Would this be a pay me now or pay me later situation? She is entitled if it goes to something legal. It is affordable and there are no children, just the house that I am living in.

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Originally Posted by helpusal55

Would this be a pay me now or pay me later situation? She is entitled if it goes to something legal [?]

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Possibly. If for example, she files for divorce and asks for a share of the pension, a QDRO would probably be ordered.

Did the marriage exist the entire time you were accumilating your pension ? That is the question as to how much she may be awarded in a courtroom.