Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 Years and we have a 7 month old baby, when we started dating we were having sex 3-4 times a week then my hormones were unbalanced for like 2 year and we were having sex like once a month. Now that I had the baby I am very sexualy active and he never wants:rolleyes: :eek: to have sex. He tells me his hormones are unbalanced and I caused that because I never wanted to have sex with him. I need HELP!!

I kind of understand what he is going through. I have been with my g/f for 3 years now, we had sex at least once daily. She is about 5 months pregnant now, and pretty much never wants sex. I'm lucky if I get it once a month. The first few months were really difficult for me, going from everyday, to once a month. Now though, it don't really seem to bother me as much, at night I go right to sleep, not really in the mood like I used to be. The only thing I can suggest, is try to make him want it... dress sexy, or do things you know will turn him on.

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Originally Posted by aracelis0104

Me and my boyfriend have been toghether for 5 Years and we have a 7 month old baby, when we started dating we were having sex 3-4 times a week then my hormones were unbalanced for like 2 year and we were having sex like once a month. Now that I had the baby I am very sexualy active and he never wants:rolleyes: :eek: to have sex. he tells me his hormones are unbalanced and i caused that because i never wanted to have sex with him. I need HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Seems to me like he is playing tit for tat games which are silly games.

Communicate with him.
Us women are a complicated breed when it comes to hormones, we are very hormonal, and I went through the same thing as you, also for about 2 years, it drove my poor man crazy... Now I'm fine and he is loving it.. making the most of me ;)
Communication is the KEY