There used to be a thing between us but now we avoid each other. I want us to be friends but I think he hates me. What do I do?

FInd someone else that actually likes you. And stop wasting time on someone that doesn't. You can't make people like you....and the reality of life is some people will like you and some won't no matter what you say or do.

You leave him alone. Don't worry about trying to get someone to like you who doesn't.

I have to work with him constantly in class since he is at my table but I hate him so much. What to do? He used to be my crush.

Why do you hate him ?

So what happened to wanting to be his friend?

My advice is to let the drama go and be polite when you have to work with him. Concentrate on the work instead of who you are working with. In life you will have to work with people you dislike or think dislike you. An ability to look past the personal conflicts to get the job done will be a very valuable trait when you have a job.

Romantic interests come and go. Just because the 'crush' is over does not mean the feelings turn to 'hate'. Unless there is a lot of the story you have left out.

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Originally Posted by ruby fire

I have to work with him constantly in class since he is at my table but I hate him so much. What to do? He used to be my crush.

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Going from loving a crush that hates you... to hating the same crush soooo much? In just two days? Is there an emotional disorder here at work that needs dealt with?

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

Why do you hate him ?

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I don't hate him he hates me

Look guys, we used to have this history and I suppose I hate him and like him at the same time, and I want to be friends with him but we both avoid each as often as we can and there is this tension between us.

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Originally Posted by ruby fire

I don't hate him he hates me

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You sound incredibly confused because your original question said he hated you but then you stated:

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Originally Posted by ruby fire

I have to work with him constantly in class since he is at my table but I hate him so much. What to do? He used to be my crush.

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What can you do? Just do what Cat suggested. What else can you really do?

You do your work and get over it. It's all a part of growing up.

He hates you, you hate him, according to your posts. So you learn to work with him, and keep emotions out of it. That will happen a lot when you get into the real world. There will be many people you will have to work with that you don't necessarily like. But you're paid to get the job done, and focusing on how you feel about a person, won't help you. You have to learn that how you feel about someone, or how they feel about you, doesn't matter when you have to work together.

Since you both hate each other, according to you, there's no reason to be friends. Just be civil, concentrate on the school work you have to do with him, and move on. Stop trying to be friends with someone you hate just to make things easier. That's not real life.